How to Give a Man a Boner

You can say there are three types of flirting: the subtle one, the obvious one, and the one that seeks driving someone crazy with lust. In order to turn a guy on, first you will need to flirt with him a bit in a more subtle way; you can’t go from 0 to hundred in one swoop. So when you are ready for the next phase, you may want to read on these helpful tips.

When you are sitting down talking to him, you will want to put your hand on his thigh. You can do this casually while you are talking to him or when you are seducing him, but you want to let your hand linger for a little while. The trick to do this right is this: when you take off your hand, move it a bit closer to his penis for a few moments before removing it completely.

If you want to leave him hanging, you can do a little trick ‘by accident’ Hug him and press your chest against him; and make sure to give him a kiss on the cheek. The little trick is that you will need to kiss the corner of his lips or an area very close to them. Of course, you only did that because you were in a hurry and you miscalculated…wink*

When you are dancing or clubbing don’t be afraid to grind against him. Dancing creates the perfect scenario for you to rub against his member! And if you are not in that environment, you can definitely grind him if you are in a crowded place like an elevator. Being in a crowd is the perfect excuse to rub your butt against his crotch…

For those who want to give their man a little surprise, they can try walking up behind them and saying hello. But the catch is you want to place your hand almost on his butt…a tiny bit higher than that delectable ass. And don’t take off your hand right away; leave it there to linger for him to get the idea.

And speaking of his ass, you want to compliment him in a more sexual way. Tell him how sexy his butt looks in those pants or how turned on you are feeling after seeing him cook…when you are with other people, whisper in closely and say something like ‘do you have an erection? Because your crotch looks really big’…and throw in a little cheeky smile and a wink if you feel like it.

When you are away from each other you want to flirt through texting. This is a great way to let him know what is on your mind and to tease him a bit. You can tease him as much as you want and/or you can send him a very sexy picture of you.

If teasing is right up your alley, you can do this in a number of ways. For instance, when he is looking for something (like his car or house keys) grab it and put it down your cleavage inside your bra or around the band of your pants. Give him a flirty smile and say ‘oops…would you help me get it off?’

Another thing you can do is mention you had a sex dream about him…and then tell him in detail what you two were doing there.

You can also play a bit with revealing clothes. Invite him shopping with you and leave a few buttons undone when you are coming out of the dressing room. Or you can also try on something sexy and revealing only to then ask him if the garment is too revealing, like ‘is my dress too see-through?’ or ‘is this skirt too short?’ And don’t forget to ask him to take a peek inside the changing room because you want to know his opinion…and oops, I didn’t notice you were still here wink*