Advantages of Age in BDSM Sex Scenes
BDSM is by far the most flexible community in the world as its enthusiasts and practitioners are of all ages, genders and sexual orientation. The age of the partners involved in a BDSM scene is absolutely not important. In some cases, mature partners have better BDSM experiences due to their sexual history. But what makes age an asset and not a problem when it comes to your sexual life? The question raises a variety of answers and aspects. The more aware you are of all of them, the more sexual confidence you will gain for your own benefit and your relationship.
As time passes by and you experience more BDSM sexual encounters, you will become more familiar with different sex toys and accessories. Some of which you need to master to have a professional BDSM scene as well as intense sexual satisfaction. You will learn to sexually stimulate your partner using nipple clamps and butt plugs while having passionate sexual intercourse combined with the right amount of dirty talk. Mature couples know how to incorporate sexual stimulation during their physical sexual intercourse and increase their level of sexual pleasure. They will also know how to choose the right toys and accessories for specific BDSM scenes.
If you are aiming for an edge play scene, chances are you need to master simpler scenes before you can get to this intense level of BDSM. If you try to indulge with your partner in an edge play scene as a beginner, then you might not enjoy it as much as you would have had you gathered more BDSM sexual experiences beforehand. Dirty talk is another form of sexual stimulation you can get better at with time. When you incorporate dirty talk into your sexual encounters with your partner, remember to adapt your tone and words as well as your attitude to the type of BDSM scene you are in to as well as the level of sexual experience your partner has.
More often than not, dirty talk for beginners is based on some sexual descriptions, as kinky as they can be, to stimulate both of you during your encounter. Over time, it can move on to verbal humiliation involving name calling, extreme kinky words and even taboo subjects you describe to your partner who responds in the same way or in an even kinkier way. But to be able to reach such a balance together and use verbal humiliation to stimulate both of you, some BDSM experience is necessary to build your vocabulary as well as your imagination.
Speaking of imagination, the more time passes the better you will get at creative bondage ideas. You will learn to use ropes in different ways as well as body harnesses and blindfolds. In addition, you can create a great and unique bondage style scene to stimulate both of you intensely! All these aspects wouldn’t be possible unless you have practiced BDSM fetishes and fantasies for some years. Likewise, you will get to know your partner while doing so. In time, this will lead both of you to develop a common sexual level and body language to improve your encounters significantly, but, maybe in a few years and not in a few days.
In light of these aspects, age is a huge advantage for BDSM couples. It doesn’t matter if your partner is younger or older than you. It is because an experienced partner can take control of the entire BDSM scene and should be able to lead their lover to the ultimate level of sexual satisfaction.
