Please tell us a little bit about yourself β How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I have been involved in fetish/BDSM both Lifestyle and Professionally for over 20 years. I embrace the
Lifestyle with My mind, body, and soul. My quest is to further explore the darkest realms of humanity and
sexuality.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I first realized I was into bondage when I attended a bondage fashion show with my submissive. W/we
were going out for the evening and I found an event listed in the local free newspaper. The show was very
exciting and interactive.
How you best describe yourself and why?
Dominant. I am a Female Dominant, Domme, Pro Domina.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional?Β
My desire for bondage is both physical and emotional. The physical aspect of binding My submissive/slave and the emotional aspect of the bond W/we experience.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
BDSM is a part of My lifestyle. I indulge in BDSM as a Lifestyle Domme and a Professional Domina.
What was your best bondage experience?
My best bondage experience so far has been in fetish modeling. I had always been the Dominant in the bondage scenario until I got involved in fetish modeling. It was an life learning experience being on the other side of the rope. It made me more aware of how My submissives and slaves may feel.
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
The most important experience about bondage is safety and trust. You can't have safety without trust. If they both exist both parties will be satisfied.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
My advice is that you can never learn to much about yourself and your partners(physical/mental health).
It's Not all about exploring each other's fetishes. You must have honesty, trust, and respect for one another. You must respect each other's boundaries.
You can have fun in a Safe, Sane, and Consensual manner.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?
I love Sub-Shop.com's fetish wear, adult sex toys, bondage gear, I Love it all
I, as well as My submissives and slaves, enjoy the variety of pleasure and pain W/we experience.
What is the one sensual fantasy you havenβt lived out yet that you are excited to try?
My sensual fantasy is to create My own line of adult sex toys.
How do you feel about the return of the 90βs mullet hairstyle?
I may have to mull over the return of the mullet hairstyle.
Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or goofy knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.
Plato: "You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation".