Valentine's Day Romance for BDSM Lovers - Part 2

If you’re looking for ideas to surprise your partner on Valentine’s Day, you’ve come to the right place. Now, ideally any day is good in order to surprise them, but given the special date, you may be looking to try something different.

A great idea to execute is to do some little restraint play on them. The whole thing will be about them not being able to move while you have them completely at your mercy; teasing them endlessly till they can’t take it anymore. Sounds good? That’s what I thought wink*.

Now, before you try anything you should know if your partner has any trouble being restrained and/or blindfolded. Some people may get into panic in those scenarios, so if you have never done anything like that, it’s a good idea to discuss it with them beforehand to get the clearance. For this to work, you will also need to discuss boundaries; maybe there are some things they are not comfortable trying and that is ok, just respect their wishes and discuss what are they willing to try. If you know they like it and have no trouble with it, let’s get started.

Having said all of the above, you will also need to be mindful about their reactions and listen to them. They may not be very vocal, but monitor their bodies and reactions in order to see if anything it’s not right. Remember, sometimes the idea looks great on paper or it works for someone else, but in reality everyone is different.

So, the idea is for you to tease them, so you will need several items in order to do so. First, you can use some silk rope to tie them, or even cuffs if you prefer. You will also need a blindfold; it’s even more exciting if they can’t see what’s happening. As for the teasing, you can start with some feather ticklers or whips. Just run them down their bodies to give them a good taste about things to come.

When you feel they are starting to get in the mood, you can get creative. You can either try more sensory play with hot wax or run ice cubes down their bodies or even feed them something romantic and aphrodisiac (did someone say chocolate covered strawberries) or basically anything you want. You can also have some fun with a toy, like a vibrator. Try with different settings and speeds, just to see how their reaction changes. You have carte blanche for fun…