New to BDSM - Nipple Orgasms

Nipple torture can be an amazing way to have a nipple orgasm; nipple stimulation can be extremely pleasurable. Nipples are highly sensitive, so stimulation and nipples come hand in hand. If you are interested in nipple orgasms, keep reading.

The first thing you need to know is you can have orgasms just by nipple stimulation. Stimulating the nipples actually triggers a part of the brain that also lit up when you stimulate the genital area. They do tend to last less than usual orgasms, but it can be a great experience.

How you get there can be quite different; some people love tugging, twisting and biting, while for others that can be super painful. Something else to keep in mind is that women’s sensitivity in their nipples changes over the whole month depending on their hormones and menstrual cycle, so watch out for that.

You can begin by lightly squeezing your partner’s nipples; be careful not to do any twisting or pinching because you are just starting with the process. It is important to just play fondly with them so they can be prepared for what is next. After some caresses, they should be erect and hard. When this happens, get ready to massage them in circles; this should feel incredibly nice for them.

The next step is to add a little bit of tongue to the mix. Just lick your partner’s nipples in a circular motion with the tip of your tongue, all of this while you keep massaging the nipple so you can keep it stimulated. Obviously you can vary your tongue movements: you can lick, suck or flick your tongue against the nipple…you can even experiment with some gentle nibbles as well (just be careful). Basically anything goes depending on what makes your partner crazier with pleasure.

When you have been doing this for a while it is time to start sucking for real. You should start by putting your lips around your partner’s nipples so you can begin to suck very lightly. This will actually create a sort of vacuum with that extra pressure; the nipples will be more sensitive and will be enlarged. As a result, every sensation will be felt double and better.

In order to have an amazing nipple orgasm, the person should talk freely with their partner during the whole process. This is a key if you want to actually experience an orgasm; it doesn’t matter if it is a sexual intercourse orgasm or a nipple orgasm, communication is the only way you can actually get them.

Especially at first or the first few times that you are trying it, constant communication is of outmost importance. You don’t know how the sensations will be felt and what sort of things will make you get there; that is why it is very important to tell your partner what you want like ‘nibble me a little harder’ or ‘ don’t twist the nipples that much’, etc.

If you are alone, don’t fret. You can still get into the nipple pleasure; just touch your own nipples until they are erect and simply follow the same steps in a way you stimulate them. The difference is the licking part; you won’t be able to lick them (if you can, wow! Awesome ability and I’m jealous) so you should simply skip that part. When it comes to the suction, you can aid yourself with a nipple pump for a little more extra sensation and fun. And even if you have a partner, you can always try the pump for a different sensation; there are no rules here wink*

It doesn’t matter if you are with a partner or on your own; it can definitely take some time to have a nipple orgasm. Don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t happen on your first try, you just keep on experimenting until it happens. Good luck wink*