Wax play can be a highly erotic and stimulating form of play if done right. This is a very sensuous form of erotic torture but it can turn into just plain torture if done incorrectly. Read on for all the information you need to do it right and make it fun!

First, you need to have the correct wax. Bee’s wax candles, typical table use colored candles and
Before you begin: always do the drip test first! The most effective way to check to make sure that the candle is not burning to hot is to drip a few drops of melted wax on the inside of your wrist. This is a sensitive area so you’ll be able to tell how hot it will feel to your lover. Remember if the wax is too hot it can burn the skin and lead to permanent scarring. How high you hold the candle also has a cooling effect on the dripping wax — the higher you hold the candle from your lover, the cooler the droplets will be by the time those drops of wax touch the skin. Try this by testing on yourself first to see what the appropriate distance to drip from is.

If you’re playing on an area of the body with hair, you may want to shave the area to be waxed first to prevent ripping out the hair upon removal of the wax. Never apply hot wax to the genitals or the face. The most important thing to remember is safety first, at all times. It’s always better to take the extra time to do it right than to try to repair the damage from doing it wrong. Just in case an accident does happen, make sure you have some soothing balm or burn cream handy for an immediate remedy. This also helps put your lover at ease. They’ll know you’re serious about safety and you’ll both have more fun if the
Okay, now that you have the proper type of wax or candle and have tested the wax, it’s time to play!
It’s generally a good idea to lay down something you don’t mind getting wax on like an old sheet or a vinyl or latex sheet (yum!) on your play surface before getting started. This will keep your carpet safe and save you the hassle of trying to scrape any little pieces of dried wax out of it. See my Wax Removal tips below to clean up errant drips and remove hardened wax from your lover’s body.

It’s always best to arouse your slave before you begin. Wax play can be very intense and if not experienced when aroused and «in the zone», also known as
Now that you’re all set with the right wax, your partner is all slick and oiled up and you’ve tested the wax, you’re ready to play! Hold the candle approximately 8 to 12 inches away from your partner and slowly dribble the wax onto the flesh (that distance depends on the results of your earlier testing, how hot your partner can take it and how deeply into the zone or
The best way to remove wax is with a plastic scraper. You can also use a fingernail if it’s a small space or the blunt back end of a butter knife. Make sure to remove all the wax from your drop sheet before you wash it. Unfortunately, even a small amount of wax can clog up your washing machine, so make sure to check over your clothing and sheets carefully before putting them in your washing machine. To remove wax from carpeting use an iron set on medium and run the iron over the stained area with a towel between the carpet and iron. The towel will soak up the melted wax and be out of your carpet!
Always remember, no matter how «hot» your wax play may get to always keep your partner in mind. As always, be safe, sane and consensual!