Safe Pegging Tips for Satisfying Anal Playtime

The Bend over Boyfriend or pegging position is something that attracts a lot of men and women just the same. Anal pleasure has been gaining more and more steam throughout the years and if you ask me, that’s wonderful! People who are discovering new ways of finding pleasure are my kind of people wink*.

So, once you’ve been playing and maybe using some anal toys to enjoy and get used to the sensation of being anally penetrated, there will come a time when it’s finally the moment to try the real thing. Needless to say, you will need your strap on for this to work, so don’t forget to try it on beforehand to make sure it works!

If you are the woman, you will need to properly adjust the strap on comfortably. Don’t forget there will be thrusting and movement, so you will need to secure the harness tight enough to ensure it can withhold the movements. Just as well, the dildo must also be secured. Before you start doing anything, it’s a good idea to try it on and feel how it works so you can be in better control later on.

The key when it comes to thrusting is to really move and use your lower back, hips and upper legs. Ideally, especially at first, it’s a good idea for your partner to take control and make him do most of the work; meaning he will penetrate and take in the dildo, not the other way around. When he gets used to the sensation and you both feel comfortable enough, you can start moving around more and create a thrusting rhythm that works.

Pegging is a great way to not only experience new kinds of pleasure, but to also explore gender play. Given the nature of the activity, genders will be reversed with women doing the penetrating and men taking on a passive role. It can be a whole new experience where you can discover new things about yourself and your partner, and that’s a great thing! Beyond the physical aspect and pleasuring your partner in a different way you’re both used to, the physiological aspect will be even more important and you may be surprised about the new things you can find.

And lastly, don’t forget to always practice safe sex. Remember at the end of the day this is an anal practice, so all the general rules about it are valid here. When you’re done, don’t forget to properly clean your toys and equipment. If you’re playing with different partners, be extra careful and use a condom. Safe is always fun wink*.