Guide to Open Up Pegging in Your Relationship

Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone…But good news is, I’m here wink*.

Unlike a cool sexual technique you’ve read about and want to try in the spur of the moment, this practice requires for you two to talk about it beforehand. Anal play and penetration involves a lot of trust and communication, not to mention preparation, so as long as you are careful everything should be fine.

If the man has never been anally penetrated before or has never indulged in anal play, it’s probably not the best idea to go all the way with pegging the first time. They can start experimenting alone or with a partner; the easiest way to start is with just lubricant and a gloved (use non latex gloves) finger. This will help because it’s a good way to see how the experience will feel and to make the body get used to the sensation. When the man is ready to move on, they can try a butt plug or even a prostate massager, which are great in order to experiment the sensation of prostate stimulation.

The strap on will obviously be an important part of this whole process, so you need to have good equipment. First, keep in mind dildos come in different sizes and varieties, so you will to choose one that fits your partner’s needs. Also, your strap on will need to be strong enough to endure the thrusts, so if it’s too flimsy, it simply won’t cut it. A good tip to see if the strap on is secured strong enough is to put two towels on top of the dildo; if it doesn’t fall, it’s probably good to go.

Once you’ve talked and are ready to try it, remember to keep those communication channels open when you’re actually in the act. You will need to know whether you need to go slower, not so deep, if you need to use more lubrication, etc. If the woman is not so sure about the techniques and process, she can also watch their partner stimulating himself to get a better idea about what he enjoys. If you’re a woman, don’t be afraid to ask questions and if you’re a man don’t be afraid to mention how you like things and what you are looking for. Good luck pegging!