The idea of the erotic impact play can be scary, especially if you have never experienced it before. Erotic spanking or whipping can bring mind-blowing sexual stimulation and pleasure to a whole new level if done properly and in the right circumstances. Keep in mind that BDSM sex toys are used as an enhancement during lovemaking and may not be suitable for beginners who are just starting out with bondage games or heavy SM play.
What is BDSM Impact Play
Many people will tell you that there are many types of impact play. They range from erotic spanking to whipping (of both consensual partners or slaves), caning, domination or submission. The tools of such play include everything from floggers to crops to paddles to canes. No matter what you're using, however, it's important to keep safety in mind—you don't want injury in an area where it could cause long-term problems! The goal is pleasure: with a little common sense and some comfort with your partner/dom/sub, impact play can be a great way to give someone else control over your body while receiving sensations they may otherwise find too intense on their own.
Whips
For impact play, whips are popular sex toys that create a unique sensory experience. Whips fall into three categories: single-tail whips, floggers (also known as cat o' nine tails), and bullwhips. A whip's length is determined by its handle—the longer it is, the more painful it will be. Shorter whips typically have
multiple strands of leather or other material that can also be used to make your target bleed or bruise. Some are designed specifically for bondage and contain hooks so they can be connected to restraints. If you're new to using a whip during sex play, try out different lengths until you find one that feels comfortable in your hand but still provides an intense sensation on your partner's skin
Paddles
If you’re a fan of using whips to spank your lover but don’t want to leave marks that will last longer than you might like, consider buying a paddling paddle instead. Whether it’s made from leather or another material—such as rope—paddling can be fun if done right. That said, it can take practice to learn how hard you should hit so that each spank gets your partner aroused without leaving a mark. As with any toy used for impact play, always start light with low-impact toys such as paddles before moving onto higher-impact items such as canes or crops.
Crops
A crop is a long handle with a leather thong or flexible rod at one end. It's an easy way to get an intense impact play scene going without requiring special equipment. A crop can be used to lightly smack your partner across tender body parts such as their bottom or inner thighs, but also works nicely as a light tickler of sensitive areas like their armpits or toes. You can use a crop during foreplay to tease your partner by tapping it gently against their skin (near genitals) while you're kissing them slowly—or even over clothing if they're not ready for direct stimulation yet.
Canes
Many people who like to use impact play toys enjoy spanking and paddling their partners. However, they may not know how much more effective caning is when done properly. While a flogger or paddle will leave marks on your submissive's ass or thighs after a few swats, caning creates vivid marks on your partner's ass or back that last several days—sometimes even weeks. When it comes to using a cane in bondage play, there are two basic forms of strokes: The Single Stroke & Double Strokes. Both will leave visible red lines that deepen as they heal. The Double Stroke A double-stroke is exactly what it sounds like—it involves two individual strokes of pain.
