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Basic Power Exchange Scene Negotiation Form

A soft start for playing with dominance and submission—no leather required.

This form is for partners who want to explore D/s (Dominance and submission) without needing heavy equipment, intense language, or strict protocols. Think: flirty bossiness, light control, and permission to surrender a little (or a lot).


CHOOSE YOUR ROLES FOR TODAY

  • How do you want to play in this scene?
    ☐ I want to lead (Dominant)
    ☐ I want to follow (Submissive)
    ☐ Let’s switch it up
    ☐ Still figuring it out—can we try and see?

  • Do you want to use titles?
    ☐ Yes! Let’s try words like “Sir,” “Ma’am,” “Mistress,” “Daddy,” etc.
    ☐ No titles, just tone
    ☐ I’ll tell you if something feels good or weird when we’re in it


CONTROL & OBEDIENCE

  • What kind of control feels fun or exciting?
    (Check all that sound good to try)
    ☐ You tell me what to wear
    ☐ You tell me where to stand, sit, or kneel
    ☐ You make me ask before I touch you
    ☐ You make me ask before I touch myself
    ☐ You give me light rules (no speaking without permission, posture, etc.)
    ☐ You make me wait for things
    ☐ You give me a task or assignment
    ☐ Let’s improvise—I like surprises
    ☐ None of this right now—just here to feel things out

  • Any of the above that feel too much, too soon?


 WORDS, TONE & DIRTY TALK

  • How do you want the dominant to sound?
    ☐ Playfully bossy
    ☐ Stern but loving
    ☐ Strict and commanding
    ☐ Mostly gentle—don’t go too hard
    ☐ Let's discover it together

  • Words or names that turn me on:

  • Words or tones that turn me off (please avoid):


SAFETY & COMMUNICATION

  • Safeword for this scene:

  • “Pause” word or signal (optional):

  • Should the dominant check in during the scene?
    ☐ Yes, I’d like little check-ins (like “Are you okay?” or eye contact)
    ☐ No talking breaks unless something feels wrong
    ☐ Maybe—let’s see how it goes


AFTERCARE PLANS

  • After the scene ends, I’d love…
    ☐ Snuggles or closeness
    ☐ Sweet words or soft touch
    ☐ Time to talk and decompress
    ☐ Quiet alone time
    ☐ A little reward (a treat, permission to cum, etc.)
    ☐ Not sure yet—let’s talk after


💭 ANYTHING ELSE?

(Fantasies you’ve been scared to say out loud? Things that felt good last time? Let it all out—this is a safe space.)