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Download a free beginner bondage negotiation form to explore boundaries, set limits, and plan safe, consensual restraint play. Ideal for first-timers.




Beginner Bondage Scene Negotiation Form

A cozy little checklist for curious cuties trying bondage for the first time—sweet, safe, and just a little spicy

WHO’S WHO

  • Do you want to be known as someone else for mystery or by a pet name for fun?
    (Write whatever name feels exciting or safe to use tonight!)

  • Tonight, I’m curious about…
    ☐ Being tied up
    ☐ Doing the tying
    ☐ Switching roles
    ☐ Just watching / playing lightly

LET’S TALK TIES

  • Which of these sound fun to try?
    ☐ Wrists tied in front
    ☐ Wrists tied behind (but not too tight!)
    ☐ Ankles tied
    ☐ Tied gently to the bed or chair
    ☐ Blindfolded (just for fun)
    ☐ Gagged (cloth, tape, or soft toy)
    ☐ Light teasing or spanking while tied
    ☐ Dressing up / being put in a “role”
    ☐ I’m not sure yet—can we feel it out together?

  • Not ready for:
    (Anything you’d rather skip!)

SAFETY STUFF (Made Simple)

  • Let’s choose a safeword (to stop if needed):

  • Optional: Want a “pause” word too?
    (For slowing down, checking in, or taking a break)

  • Quick-release plan:
    ☐ Yes! We’ll keep scissors or safety gear nearby—just in case anyone needs out quickly!
    ☐ Let’s make one together before we start

VIBES CHECK

  • What kind of scene are we in the mood for?
    ☐ Flirty and silly
    ☐ Romantic and soft
    ☐ A little edgy but still safe
    ☐ Somewhere in between

  • Fun phrases I might want to hear (pet names, compliments, etc):

  • Anything I don’t want to be called or hear?

     

     

AFTERCARE = LOVE

  • After we untie, I’d love to…
    ☐ Snuggle
    ☐ Laugh and talk
    ☐ Grab a snack or drink
    ☐ Be left alone for a bit
    ☐ See where the night takes us
    ☐ Not sure yet—we’ll play it by ear

  • Touch after the scene?
    ☐ Yes please
    ☐ Maybe—check in with me
    ☐ I’ll need some space first

💭 EXTRA THOUGHTS?

(Any nervous butterflies, big turn-ons, or questions you want your partner to know?)