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💗 Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) Scene Negotiation Form

A spicy fantasy with real trust behind it. Let’s make it feel just right.

This little checklist helps you explore the “I want to pretend I don’t want it” fantasy—without having to over-explain or feel awkward. Whether you’re curious, nervous, or wildly turned on… you’re allowed to be all of that. Just pick what sounds fun, skip what doesn’t, and trust that your “no” is always valid—even when you want to hear it ignored in the moment.


The Vibe I’m Looking For

(check all that apply)

  • I want to feel taken, claimed, or overpowered

  • I want to resist and have you ignore it (safely!)

  • I want to feel used or objectified

  • I want to feel a little helpless

  • I want to feel scared, but safe

  • I want this to be rough and edgy

  • I want to be emotionally pushed (like humiliation, name-calling)

  • I want to pretend to fight back, but you keep going

  • This is new to me—let’s go slow and talk a lot

  • I want a specific fantasy: ___________________________________


Things That Turn Me On in This Kind of Scene

(no one’s judging—pick what gets you twitchy)

  • Being held down

  • Being told “You’re mine now”

  • Struggling and being overpowered

  • Restraint (rope, cuffs, tape, etc.)

  • Forced oral (pretend, with care!)

  • Being gagged or blindfolded

  • Orgasm denial / forced orgasms

  • Verbal humiliation or name-calling

  • A “surprise” scenario (home invasion, ambush)

  • Slapping, spanking, rough handling

  • You pretending not to care what I want

  • Something else: ___________________________________


🚫 Things That Are 100% Off-Limits

(because real safety makes fantasy fun)

  • Physical hard limits: ___________________________________

  • Emotional or verbal limits: _____________________________

  • Things I don’t want even pretend versions of: __________


How I Want the Scene to Feel

(tone is everything—pick what excites you most)

  • Cold and cruel

  • Stern and serious

  • Mean but sexy

  • Dangerous… but fantasy-dangerous

  • Dark and dominant

  • Still figuring it out—let’s feel it out together


🛑 Let’s Talk “No” and Stop Signals

Full stop safeword: _______________________________________

“Pause and check-in” word (optional): _______________________

If I say "no" or "stop" during the scene:

  • It’s part of the fantasy—you can ignore it unless I safeword

  • I’ll say something else to signal resistance

  • Please stop anytime I say no—I’ll use my words differently if roleplaying

  • Let’s figure out our language together


Aftercare I Might Want After This Scene

  • Snuggling or being held

  • Hearing I’m safe, wanted, and did good

  • Space to cry or come down gently

  • Quiet time alone

  • Laughing and joking to shake it off

  • Water, food, grounding touch

  • Sex after—if I say yes

  • Let’s check in and talk about it


💬 Other Things I Want You to Know