Hooks make up a big part in any BDSM/torture fanatic drawers, am I right? They are also a great way to spice up your sex life or to try something once every once in a while…but there no guarantees you won’t start to try it on daily bases wink*.
Now, hooks can be vaginal or anal. Both can be used for slightly different things obviously, so let’s have a look at how you can use them. The two kinds of hooks look quite similar, with a J shape and made out of steel. Vaginal hooks are meant to be inserted and to penetrate the vagina from the front. Now, unlike anal hooks, vaginal hooks usually don’t have an attachment on one end of the hook. The reason is some people find those possible attachments like balls or plugs actually very uncomfortable or even painful, thus taking out all the point of erotic hooks.
One fun way to use a vaginal hook is to tie it to a pair of your favorite nipple clamps. This can make the experience a bit intense, so you will have to be careful. You can attach the clamps through a string or rope to the eye of the vaginal hook; the point is to make the nipples stretch out. If you want to take it a step harder, attach that string or rope to a pulley above your partner. That way, when you raise the pulley, that rope tension will be applied to the nipples. If the person jiggles or moves, the hook will pull on the nipples…creating a very special reaction wink*.
Another way to have fun? You can train your submissive with a little stillness training. You can make your partner lie on a bed and put on some of those nipple clamps in place with a rope attached to the vaginal hook. When the tension is released, the nipples will be taut. The woman won’t be able to move because every time she tries to do so, it will feel painful and a bit uncomfortable. So now it’s where the real fun begins, because you can torture your sub in the most delicious ways. You can gently (or hardly!) stroke her with a flogger. Or use a Wartenberg wheel on their body. Or drop hot wax on your partner…if you are feeling extremely mischievous, why not use a vibrator or a dildo? So naughty!
After you are done having fun, don’t forget to clean your hook. You can rub some alcohol, toy cleaner or soap and water, but just to be on the safe side, properly sterilize it before using it again. You should always do that with insertable toys and you should take special care in doing so if you are inserting the same hook on different people or partners. And to make things a bit more comfortable, use lubrication if your partner needs it; although I actually recommend relying on it even if they seem to be lubricated enough, just to be on the safe side. Remember lubrication makes things easier! You always have to keep a bottle nearby when you play. Don’t be afraid, wink*.
Now, keep in mind hooks can be dangerous so you should always use them with some training beforehand. The safety of your submissive or partner should always be at the top of your list of priorities. You should always know what you are doing and should always use a clean hook before inserting it on someone. When you feel comfortable enough to try on someone, go and have fun. Play safe and get hooked wink*.