Essential Sex toys for Men and Women who are into BDSM Play

There are tons of sex toys out there. Some of them are unisex, others are gender specific. Sex-toys are enjoyable for both men and women, especially if they are BDSM enthusiasts. Let’s take a look at few toys that can come in handy in a BDSM play:

For Her:

The Remote-Controlled Bullet Vibrator

Good things really do come in small packages. The bullet or egg vibrator slips inside a woman’s vagina to provide discreet stimulation. And when her dominant is at the controls, the pleasure is as unpredictable as it is unstoppable. Some bullet vibrators attach to the crotch area of panties, so there is a make and model to suit every woman and sexual purpose.

The Rabbit Vibrator

This type of vibrator is guaranteed to quickly bring almost any woman to orgasm. It consists of a rotating shaft and a two-pronged clitoral stimulator in the shape of rabbit ears, thus providing simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. When slid inside a restrained female submissive, she will have little choice but to succumb to the tag-team pleasure of the deep turning shaft and the gentle vibrations of the rabbit ears.

Dildos

Dildos are phallic-looking sex toys. Some resemble real penises, while others have more of a novelty appeal in terms of size and color. Many boast bumps or other textures to enhance pleasure. Strap-on dildos are often used in BDSM sex-play, especially for more hard-core scenes where a female dominant “penetrates” a male submissive.

Nipple Clamps, Toys & Gels

There is a plethora of products designed for nipple stimulation. From simple alligator clamps and suction mini-cups to vibrating clips and stimulating lotions, nipple toys provide a hands-free way for a dominant to ensure his submissive’s most sensitive areas remain stimulated. A range of common items from wooden clothespins to kitchen tongs can also be used for nipple stimulation.

Clitoral Stimulating Gels, Creams or Lotions

These products produce a tingling sensation that intensifies clitoral arousal. They are best used during fingering and intercourse, as their taste and effect may bother a man who is performing cunnilingus. A man who uses a strong mint mouthwash prior to cunnilingus can treat his woman to a similar tingling experience without having his tongue go numb while performing oral sex.

Ben Wa Balls

Ben Wa balls slip inside a woman’s vagina to produce constant internal pleasure. They are the perfect complements to delayed gratification, erotic torture and cunnilingus. They may be made of rubber, plastic or glass, and some models vibrate for extra sensation.

For Him:

Penis Pumps & Male Masturbators

Male masturbators or “pocket pussies” replicate a woman’s vagina, mouth or anus. They are made of various construction materials and often boast multi-textured “insides” alongside a vibration or suction function. Penis pumps are most often suction cylinders into which a man slides his shaft. They are used for self-pleasure, to temporarily increase the size of an erection, or for personal discipline. These should be used according to directions—never use too much pressure or leave on for too long. Personal lubricant is required for use with these items.

Penis Stimulating Gel, Cream or Lotion

These products create a tingling sensation on an erect shaft, thereby intensifying arousal and increasing sensitivity. These are best used during manual manipulation and intercourse, as their taste and effect may be unpleasant to a woman performing fellatio. A woman can bring a tingling sensation to fellatio by using a minty mouthwash or sucking on a strong mint before performing oral sex.

A female dominant can use these kinds of erotic aids to watch a man masturbate, for orgasm control or to add variety to a hand job. Using such a device on a bound or restrained male submissive can exacerbate his sense of helplessness and can therefore complement force fantasies. For that reason, male masturbators are valuable and versatile BDSM toys for female dominants.

Penis Rings

Penis or cock rings fit around the penis and are made of leather, metal, rubber, latex, jelly or silicone. They wrap around the base of the penis, under the scrotum, to trap blood in the shaft. The result is a longer, harder, thicker and ultrasensitive erection. Many penis rings have ticklers or small vibrators to stimulate a woman’s clitoris during intercourse. Choose a waterproof model that offers quiet use and multiple levels of sensation.

Beginners should only leave penis rings on for a short while, and should only purchase one that has a quick-release safety feature. Penis rings can be used during intercourse, fellatio or other sexual interaction.