How to Wear a Gag the Best Way Possible

Attitude is everything especially when it comes to your intimate life. You need to have the right amount of confidence to attract the kind of people you want! Wearing a gag can be an exciting sex scene for any BDSM couple that is thinking to take everything to a new level. While such a sex toy can change the entire atmosphere during a sexual encounter, your attitude is also very important in order to be successful and reach the sexual pleasure that you are aiming for. If you are a submissive, you are most likely the one who is wearing the gag, case in which your approach should be different than the one of your dominant lover. If you are a dominant, you will feel a lot more turned on while you will be seeing your submissive partner wearing a gag. But these two roles become even more intense and exciting when such a sex toy is involved. Not to mention that you can add any other sexual accessories you want or you feel might make your intimate encounter even more exciting and realistic. But no sex toys or accessories will help you reach the type of satisfaction that you want if you are not using them in the right way to obtain such benefits! So, here’s what you need to do when you are planning to enjoy an intense sex scene with your lover while one of you is wearing a mouth gag!

If you are the dominant one

As we mentioned, the dominant lover will feel a lot more stimulated by their submissive when they are wearing a gag. Seeing your slave with their mouth covered by a ball gag or any type of gag will offer you a certain level of visual stimulation that you will become addicted to. And your attitude should reflect all this dominance that a sex scene helps you feel and experiment. Without harming or taking advantage on your slave, you can use the fact that they are not able to voice their opinions and thoughts and make the entire sexual encounter a lot more intense. You will feel more in control and much more empowered in these circumstances and you can do your best to dominate your lover in a sexy yet firm way by engaging in exciting sexual activities. As a dominant one your approach should be determined and pleasure orientated. Remember that you are responsible for not only your own pleasure but the pleasure of your submissive lover as well. You can control their body in ways that you decide and offer them the type of intense orgasmic experience that they want. And at the end of the scene it is important for both of you to feel sexually satisfied and fulfilled. It is also essential to keep in mind that everythin should be done in a sane, safe and consensual manner which is the main and most important rule for any BDSM fantasy.

If you are the submissive one

As a submissive wearing a gag during a sex scene, things should be a bit more simpler. But it is not always like that. Submissive partners are actually in charge with wearing the gag in the best and most realistic way possible. For once, you should look vulnerable and easy to control which I always a turn of for both you and your lover. Secondly, you should try your best to seem convincing because when you are wearing a mouth gag it is all about the visual effect that gag has on your master or mistress and how powerful and in control it makes them feel. And as easy as this might seem, it is not always a given when it comes to couples who try this type of sex scene out for the first time. Try to act as submissive as possible and look eager to offer your dominant the type of sexual encounter that they want. You are there to give them pleasure and by doing so, you will also find the right type of sexual satisfaction for yourself. Submissive partners like to obey and make their lovers feel like they are the most important ones, which to some extend is true. However, remember that both of you have to reach the type of orgasm that you want and you shouldn’t neglect your sexual needs and expectations either! It is a good idea to have a safe action in place in order to replace the commonly safe word that you would normally use when you are in a BDSM scene. This will help to have a minimum of control when you come across sexual activities that you don’t like or that make you feel uncomfortable! Other than that all you have to do is simply enjoy the excitement and let your lover take care of the intensity of your sex scene!