BDSM Facesitting

Facesitting is a popular BDSM practice and it can be quite an intense sexual encounter between a dominant and a submissive partner. Such a BDSM scene can be a punishment session, a forced session or simply a mutual pleasure between the two partners involved. This practice is also known as queening and kinging especially among the BDSM enthusiasts from the United Kingdom. Facesitting implies one partner sitting on or over the other partner’s face in order to facilitate or even force a form of oral sex or oral and anal sexual contact. This can be extremely exciting for both partners involved, primordially for the dominant one who sits on the submissive in the most common scenarios of facesitting. It’s this specific practice that highlights the dominance and submission within the couple and establishes who is the superior partner and who is the weak one, or commonly known as the slave.

But facesitting can be combined with many other BDSM practices so there is no need to limit yourself to just this form of sexual stimulation. You can add other sex toys and accessories to stimulate your partner during a session of facesitting like nipple clamps, orgasm belts or all kinds of butt plugs according to your sexual preferences. Restraining your submissive partner in a form of bondage of your choice is also a very exciting practice that goes along with facesitting and it can make the entire BDSM scene so much more intense if they lose control over their body. Combined with sexual stimulations like these ones, your control over your submissive partner will increase and they will feel so much more stimulated during the facesitting session that it will continue for hours in a very intense way for both of you. This can lead to one orgasm after another! Combine the facesitting session with the right amount of dirty talk or verbal humiliation and you will be on the right track to an amazing BDSM scene. As a punishment method, this works great when you want to discipline your slave and humiliate them at the same time. It can be applied regardless to their gender or sexual orientation but it is that much more intense when the dominant is a female and the submissive who is forced to indulge in facesitting is a male. This allows more freedom when it comes to sexual stimulation and it gives you more options that you can apply to play with your partner’s body!

Facesitting has a history for many years and it used to involve furniture pieces such as chairs or special boxes, before the bondage styles that we have today got developed. A queening stool was a low seat that can be placed on top of the submissive’s face and it has a hole which allows the oral sexual stimulation to take place between them and their dominant. In such a scene the dominant would sit on the chair and enjoy the submissive’s oral touches while they can indulge in several orgasms. A smothering box was also quite common in the past when it comes to facesitting sexual encounters. This was a box that locked the slave in place during the facesitting session so that they have no other option but to perform the oral sex for as much as their dominant wanted. In all cases, facesitting was and still remains an intense form of BDSM and gains popularity worldwide.

A facesitting session can very well be part of the foreplay of a sexual encounter, and usually it leads to even more intense BDSM scenes. It can be so exciting that both partners will want to go to the next level and have sexual intercourse or other forms of edge play that can be rougher than facesitting and so much more soliciting. Whatever is your goal, when you dive into such a kinky BDSM scene you never know what to expect and chances are that you will discover new levels of your sexuality that you had no idea you possessed!