A lot of people experience the joy of feeling girly and pretty during bondage sex, but they don’t talk about it very much since it’s seen as embarrassing or even transgressive to cross dress during playtime. However, it’s important to embrace your inner sissy, let yourself feel pretty and girly, and express that femininity during bondage play so you can fully enjoy the experience! Here are some ways you can do this.
1) What is Sissy Bondage?
In BDSM, a sissy is a submissive partner who derives pleasure from dressing as a woman. The precise definition varies from person to person, but it usually involves making oneself up to look like a woman, typically wearing makeup. In its ideal form, sissy play is an extended role-play scenario that allows both partners to step outside their normal gender roles for a time. It typically involves some humiliation, which might be mild or extreme depending on your personal preferences. Many sissies enjoy anal penetration with fingers, dildos strap-on and other toys as part of their play. Some even undergo surgical
procedures such as breast implants and sexual reassignment surgery to further solidify their feminine identity within the context of their relationship.
2) Who Can Enjoy Sissy bondage?
It’s not for everyone, but some people like to use it as an opportunity to tap into their feminine side. Many submissive males (often referred to as sissies) find deep satisfaction in feminizing themselves during BDSM sex with their dominants. This is often done by wearing frilly lingerie, high heels, bright lipstick, or even full body corsets that accentuate their figures. Sissy bondage games should be safe, sane, and consensual; you shouldn’t feel forced into doing anything you don’t want to do. For those who enjoy these types of activities, they offer a unique way of tapping into both your dominant and submissive sides. The pleasure of feeling girly and pretty can be extremely pleasurable—and so can naughty sexy play!
You may also wish to cross dress: While many subs will spend time making themselves look pretty as part of their submission, some subs will actually spend time outside of their dominant/submissive relationship trying on different outfits.
3) Why is it So Much Fun?
If you’re feeling naughty or kinky, sissy bondage is a lot of fun. For many people it’s an incredible way to explore sex in a safe environment. On top of that, there are all sorts of frilly and girly outfits we can wear while we’re having hot steamy sex—and that pleasure comes from wearing what we love to wear during playtime. Whether you have a partner who enjoys your feminine side or if you want to experience being treated like a lady for once, playing as a girl is really pleasurable. In fact, it gets so hot and heavy at times that women often feel as though they’re going to orgasm just by putting on their outfit! Orgasm denial becomes incredibly powerful because your body experiences these levels of arousal without achieving orgasm.
