Bondage Gear Strictness Ratings
⭐ Bondage Gear Strictness Ratings ⭐
When we rate bondage gear, we’re not guessing or being playful — we’re serious about how each piece looks, feels, and restrains. Every item is judged on three factors: form (fit, design, aesthetics), function (how it performs in real play), and severity (how strict, intense, or unforgiving it is). 😈
This rating scale exists so you can shop with confidence. Whether you’re brand new and want safe, comfortable gear, or you’re experienced and crave extreme control, you’ll know exactly what to expect before you add to your toybox.
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📊 How the Ratings Work
1.0 – 2.0 : Great for Beginners
Gentle, soft, and non-intimidating. These items are padded, adjustable, and forgiving. Perfect for exploring bondage for the first time without fear.
2.0 – 3.0 : Great for Intermediates
Designed for those with some experience. Stronger sensations, sleeker designs, and firmer control while still allowing comfort for longer sessions.
3.0 – 4.0 : Great for Adventurers
Intense and exciting gear for players who want more challenge. Expect heavier materials, stricter fits, and more demanding restriction. Not suitable for beginners.
4.0 – 5.0 : The Ultimate Bondage Experience
Severe, strict, and uncompromising. Think steel, heavy leather, locking hardware, and total control. Requires negotiation, safewords, and aftercare. Only for advanced players.
❓ Top 20 Questions & Answers About Our Ratings
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What does a 1.0 rating mean?
It signals an entry-level piece designed for comfort and confidence. These items are padded, flexible, and easy to wear. Perfect for getting your first taste of bondage without overwhelm. -
Are beginner-rated toys safe for long wear?
Yes, many are built for comfort and can be worn for extended sessions. Still, you should always check circulation, skin color, and comfort regularly. Overnight use should only be done with caution and with a trusted partner. -
What makes something “intermediate”?
Intermediate gear is more structured: firmer fits, stronger sensations, and less “give.” These pieces are designed to provide real restraint while still being comfortable enough for scenes that last longer. -
Can I skip straight to a 3.0 if I’m adventurous?
You can, but it’s not recommended. Skipping ahead can cause discomfort or even panic. Building up gradually helps you learn your limits and makes the experience hotter and safer. -
What precautions should I take with 4.0–5.0 gear?
Always negotiate limits in advance, agree on safewords, and have safety shears nearby. Watch for signs of poor circulation or strain. These items are strict and unforgiving, so preparation and aftercare are essential. -
Does the scale apply to cuffs, gags, and collars equally?
Yes. A 3.0 gag is as strict for the mouth as a 3.0 cuff is for the wrists. The rating scale measures overall severity regardless of product type. -
How is comfort evaluated?
We test how an item feels during actual wear — checking padding, strap width, edge finishing, weight distribution, and how it feels after 20–40 minutes. Comfort isn’t just softness, it’s how sustainable it is during real play. -
Are ratings influenced by customer feedback?
Yes. We combine in-house testing with long-term customer reviews. If buyers consistently say something is harsher or softer than expected, we adjust the scale to match reality. -
Will I see the rating on product pages?
Yes. Every item on our site displays its rating so you can compare severity across categories at a glance. -
Does a higher rating mean better durability?
Often, but not always. Heavier gear usually uses strong leather or steel, but durability also depends on care: clean properly, store safely, and don’t overstress buckles or locks. -
Can beginner gear still look stylish?
Absolutely. Many of our beginner pieces are sleek and sexy while still staying gentle. Safety and style can go hand in hand. -
What are the best first picks for couples?
Soft cuffs, blindfolds, and padded collars make a perfect beginner set. They’re safe, easy to use, and add instant excitement without overwhelming. -
How do I progress safely from beginner to intermediate gear?
Increase intensity one step at a time: wear restraints longer, use firmer materials, or try slightly tighter fits. Always debrief afterward and adjust based on how it felt. -
What’s most popular in the 3.0–4.0 range?
Posture collars, spreader bars, heavy-duty cuffs, and locking hardware. These are the favorites for those who crave strict control without going into extreme territory. -
Do advanced players always prefer 5.0 gear?
No. Many experienced players enjoy mixing lighter and heavier restraints in the same scene. Variety keeps play exciting, sustainable, and safer. -
Can I shop for my submissive using this scale?
Yes. The scale is a great roadmap for training. You can move your sub gradually up the ladder, rewarding progress and ensuring they aren’t pushed too far too fast. -
Are all restraints adjustable?
Most are, but high-severity gear sacrifices adjustability for strictness. Steel cuffs or rigid collars don’t have the flexibility of padded leather. -
What’s the safest way to try stricter gear?
Start with short sessions, use safewords, and keep water handy. Try partial restraint (wrists only) before full immobilization. Safety and comfort should grow alongside intensity. -
Do you offer kits that match the rating system?
Yes. We have starter kits for beginners and progressive bundles for chastity, training, and impact play. They’re curated to help you climb the scale safely. -
Leather vs. steel: which is stricter?
Leather is flexible, warm, and forgiving, great for longer scenes. Steel is cold, heavy, and absolute, offering maximum control with zero give. Steel usually feels more severe, though many players enjoy combining both.
👉 Browse our gear and fill up your toybox here:
https://www.sub-shop.com/collections/