How to Set Great Scenes for Self-Bondage

Self bondage is a wonderful way to play and indulge in bondage. But sometimes we get stuck in a route and as you know, routine can be somewhat boring. So if you are looking for new self bondage ideas, look no more, dear friend wink*:

Sleeping beauty: Waking up in bondage is a whole new experience. You can even dream with a particularly kinky scenario and come awake at the surprise that the work is halfway done… You can sleep in latex and even heels if you want to; you can even sleep with a butt plug, ben wa balls or a dildo. And lastly, you can even tie up your legs or arms, as you wish. And hey, why not add a blindfold?

Heels at the top: Heels and bondage are a match made in heaven. If you want to step it up (pun intended it), you can use some pantyhose, heels and skill to tie your shoes to a bedpost. Keep in mind, the legs can’t bend at the ankles and it’s better to do it with the person lying on their stomach with their knees on a pillow for some leverage. You won’t be able to wiggle out of it and it’s great for ballet shoes training, wink*.

Checkmate: This is a fun one as it has several variations to what you prefer. You can try fetish dare while playing chess with a computer or just any game (specially cards) you can play against a machine. The idea is that any time you lose an item in the game, you will have to add something bondage related. For instance, a pawn can be “add more rope or tape or make the rope tighter”. A bishop, “add a plug”. A rook, “gag yourself”. A knight, “add a chastity belt or vibrator.” You can adapt it, as you like with your resources and changing the items if you are playing with cards. The interesting thing about this? Have you ever played against a computer? It’s super hard to win against it wink*.

A great shower: You can make the most mundane tasks exciting if you do some self bondage. Try getting in the shower on your back, blindfold and gag on, with your favorite plug, vibrator or dildo of choice. Bind your hands behind your back and optionally, you can tie your legs up in the air. Let the water drip down your body and enjoy the experience, wink*.

Extra hours: Another one to spice up daily life. If you have to stay in at work or do house chores, you can try some self-bondage. The idea is to limit your ability to move, talk, listen and eat. It’s a good idea to set a timer for 3-4 hours to see if you can make it that long. Remember to let the bondage a bit loose, not too tight so you can still be able to do whatever it is you are doing. Example: if you have to type or use your hands, don’t put a blindfold or bind your arms, but fill your orifices with something. A butt plug, dildo, gag (if you don’t have to talk)… You can even spice it with a chastity belt (sweet torture) and some latex clothing. The idea is up to you, wink*.