How to be a Dominatrix

Being a dominatrix involves a lot of things. It’s a mix of several aspects; combining attire, toys, a scene, and of course, the right attitude. Being a dominatrix is a state of mind and you need to work and put a little effort in order to do get into it.

You will need to get some equipment to begin with. This equipment will be necessary for you to do the scene. I can’t tell you what to get because will depend on what you like and need for your playtime. BDSM has plenty of things and equipment; this world has something for anyone. You just need to figure out what is your “thing”

But if you are feeling a bit lost, you can start with the basics: whips, crops or paddles, and something to restrict your sub, like a pair of cuffs and some rope. If you feel like taking it a step further, you can get a dildo, plug or clamps. The important thing will be for you to try and experiment to see what elements you can incorporate to enhance your play. And make sure you get some good quality lubricant.

Another big part of this world will be the role play. This will help you get a bit more creative and have some extra fun with your scenes. Role play can bring you a lot of fun and make you unleash different sides of your personality, so it’s definitely worth a shot.

There are plenty of costumes you can get to make your role play more fun. These days, there are costumes for basically anything you can imagine, so it will be easy to get a costume that matches and goes with your particular scene. And don’t forget the shoes, wig and accessories to make your outfit complete!