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⛓️ Long-Term D/s or Training Scene Negotiation Form

For scenes with rules, rituals, and power that lasts longer than one night.

This form is designed for partners exploring ongoing dominance and submission—whether that means a weekend of control, a daily task ritual, or a training arc that builds over time. It's about structure, surrender, and the thrill of obedience.

💗 ROLES & RITUALS

Who’s in charge, and who’s obeying?

  • I’ll be the submissive

  • I’ll be the dominant

  • We’ll switch at certain times

  • Let’s figure it out together

How long does this dynamic or scene last?

  • Just tonight

  • A full day or weekend

  • Until we agree to end it

  • Ongoing, like a training program

Do you want any of these rituals or structures?

  • Morning or evening check-ins

  • Protocols (kneeling, titles, rules)

  • Behavior tracking (obedience, reward, punishment)

  • Written assignments or journal entries

  • Rulebook or contract

  • Training goals or tasks to complete

  • I have a specific structure in mind: ___________________________________________

📜 RULES & RESTRICTIONS

Rules I might enjoy following (or enforcing):

  • Ask permission before speaking / touching

  • Maintain posture (kneeling, standing still, etc.)

  • Wear assigned clothing or items

  • Follow set routines (e.g., wake-up, bedtime, messages)

  • No orgasms without permission

  • Speak or write daily affirmations

  • Present body for inspection

  • Other ideas: ___________________________________________

Any rules that are off-limits or emotionally uncomfortable?
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💬 TONE & COMMUNICATION

Tone of the dynamic?

  • Gentle but firm

  • Strict and formal

  • Playful and teasing

  • Nurturing and protective

  • Cold and disciplinary

  • Let’s create our own tone together

  • I have a specific tone in mind: ___________________________________________

How will we check in during this period of control?

  • Daily reflections or journal messages

  • Scheduled conversations

  • Body-language only check-ins

  • Aftercare conversations only

  • Open-ended—check in as needed

🛡️ CONSENT & ADJUSTMENTS

Safeword (for all activities):
___________________________________________

Can rules be renegotiated mid-scene?

  • Yes—just ask

  • Only during agreed check-in times

  • No, unless the safeword is used

  • Let’s talk about that first

🧸 AFTERCARE & TRANSITIONING OUT

After a long-term scene ends, I’ll likely need…

  • Emotional grounding / reassurance

  • Quiet time alone

  • Affirmations or praise

  • Physical affection or cuddling

  • Time to cry or decompress

  • Time to talk through what happened

  • I’m not sure—please check in with me

💭 GOALS, FANTASIES, AND DESIRES

What excites you about this kind of control? What are you hoping to feel, learn, or explore?
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