Meet Shi

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

My everyday life is very vanilla I work clean house and just try to get my to do list done every day

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

An ex-boyfriend wanted me to be his master. He was into being a sub and I started reading about it and tried it and was a natural, lol. It felt so second nature I am not sure why I never did it before.

How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or FuzzyRainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.

I am Dominant sub, lol I will take control and I will tie you up make you walk on all fours, lick my boots etc., but when I am ready to have sex I want you to take over and chock me and control me

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

I think it is an emotional and physical desire I take orders all day long because I am in the army and being able to tie someone up makes me feel free and seeing someone unable to move is a very powerful sight. I love the control

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

It means a release from everyday life, a way to escape the everyday life it is a diversion

Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer?

Let’s do all three!

Can you describe your first bondage experience?

I don’t remember my first time however a time I do remember was tying a guy to a chair in a hotel room and blind folding him and doing all types of things until he begged to be let go

What was your best bondage experience?

See above

Is there a particular food you would like to use during a sexual experience?

I am not a fan of food I do however love candle wax…

Is there one sexual thing that you would never do? If so, what is it?

I won’t say never, because I can’t see the future, I said I would never do anal and I have before. So, I would say be a part of an orgy. Sex in front of people seems crazy to me.

When was the first time you masturbated? Did you like it?

I have never really gotten in to masturbation I have tried for 20 plus years and it just isn’t my thing. I tried when I was in my teens and it just seems silly. I am a woman I can always find someone to sleep with no need to use my hand lol

Would you rather be teased with hot wax or with ice cubes?

Both the both do something different but I would lean more towards wax I hate being cold

Who would you like to French kiss Betty White or Miley Cyrus?

Neither, lol. Betty is Old and Cyrus is dirty.

Is it enough to have one orgasm or are multiple orgasms necessary?

No one eats only 1 chip the more the merrier lol. I don’t need 10 but 3-4 would be great

Which part of your body do you consider the most sexy?

My smile as corny as that is

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

TALK!!!! COMMUNICATION is key. Make sure you have a safe word and you know what your partners boundaries are. Also be willing to go at the slowest person’s pace. If you are talking about BDSM it hopefully is with someone you care about so talk, make it fun and explore as much as your partner will allow.  Communicate is the biggest thing. They are seeing you naked and doing dirty things to you don’t lie or hid your feelings

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?

The collar I got my slave with the words slave on it . . .seeing him in it was such a rush. When he would wear it I know I was in control.