Here's Why People Do BDSM

BDSM enthusiasts are interesting individuals. Indeed, their sexual preferences as well as their fetishes speak for themselves. It takes a person who is highly in touch with their sexuality to indulge in any of the many BDSM practices. Moreover, someone who is willing to understand their sexuality better and accept who they really are, beyond the social conventions.

Submissive and dominant partners are different types of individuals with varied personalities. Yet somehow, at a very intimate level, they complement each other sexually and can even make great partners in life. They are similar to the Yin and Yang pair. Generically speaking, submissives are into a complex form of obedience. It allows them to escape their responsibilities. Hence, they feel free when the BDSM session takes place. They owe this incredible feeling of freedom to their dominant partner.

In contrast, the dominant partner is often someone who lacks control, either at their job or in their personal life. They require power at different levels and compensate for it with an intense BDSM session wherein they are able to control their submissive using practices such as spanking, whipping or other punishment methods. Depending on the level of control the dominant needs and on the level of power they seek, the practices can get more intense and exciting. Hence, it could lead to edge play or serious impact play with harder spanking or whipping. These levels of BDSM have to be discussed and established beforehand. Both partners should agree with the practices about to take place. Moreover, their intensity should be consensual and mutually acceptable. Ultimately, BDSM enthusiasts who indulge in such activities, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender or the role they play during the sexual encounter, find relief as part of this community. They also find the answers to their personal questions and struggles. BDSM activists get to be more in touch with themselves and the world around them. Moreover, they get to enjoy their sexuality at various levels, while also discovering new fetishes to entertain themselves, plus, help them grow sexually and personally. Otherwise, their sexual level would have remained superficial and in turn it could damage their relationship.

BDSM enthusiasts break the walls built by society and the conventional norms around them. As a result, they are able to discover new aspects of pleasure and sexual satisfaction. It all translates in a more relaxed lifestyle as well as a more truthful one, since they become realistic people who can accept and tolerate others better than the rest. In time, BDSM activists will learn to develop and also control their sexual personalities. They might have more than a couple of them because human nature is complex with very few limits imposed on it. Hence, they will learn to build a better life and improve themselves.

People with commitment issues also find peace within the BDSM community. It allows them to manage their relationships better because of one of the most important aspects of BDSM, the increased level of trust between involved partners. Hence, it will ultimately empower their daily relationship and make them stronger individuals. With all the benefits a BDSM experience can bring you and your partner, you have no reason to deny yourself of such pleasure. Allow yourself to indulge in interesting new fetishes to make your life better. You might discover you can express your sexuality in a more intense way and obtain a more exciting outcome from your sexual encounters to bring you to a new level in your life. The psychology of BDSM community is for everything to be sane, safe and consensual for everyone involved. Be sure to abide by these as it opens the door to a wide range of possibilities one can try and explore to be a better partner and person.