Women are beautiful. I bet you could not find a person on this earth that disagrees. If we go a little deeper, into human sexuality, we find men can perceive women’s beauty in different ways. They can appreciate it as “predator”; usually accompanied by lust. This way is the classic “I want a woman so I can make her mine by dominating her sexually”. The other form they can perceive a woman is by lusting about them like I said above, but with sensations of reverence, adoration and worshipfulness accompanying it; some people call this “passive lust”. In this state, a man desires to accomplish sexual release in a way that the woman has to be the initiator, the one that acts upon him. Having trouble understanding? It’s not easy so let me give you an example: A man with “active lust” is likely thinking “I want to do things to you” or “How can I use you” Instead, a man with “passive lust” is likely thinking “What would she do to me”. And for our luck, that can be easily transformed into “What can I do for her?” See, everything is nice and peachy wink*
If you analyze this, you can easily identify what stance your previous partners took. Training passive men derives from the position of weakness they tend to have when presented with a beautiful woman. If those vulnerable feelings happen during puberty its more likely they influence future sexual preferences, this means their training will be easier (think about reinforcing feelings instead). Given these men are constantly on “passive lust”, the seduction comes easily for us women wink*. How can you recognize a man like this? Observe and examine his behavior; if most of his actions are ultimately directed towards impressing a woman or seeking constant approval from them. This makes the job easier, given that most of our part will be recreating the conditions that make a man feel inferior to a woman. This can happen like this:
1) Remember, remember. Making sure the man is fully aroused by memories or thoughts with the awareness of authority. This means scenarios like ‘a nerd being rejected by the hot woman and then masturbating with the thought of said female’, or ‘being overpowered in an argument or physically by a woman’. Those are things that create a psychological inducement where sexual attraction is related with humiliation and submissiveness; female beauty will be connected with power and this in turn will result in appreciation of beauty in the form on agreement, reverence, favors and admiration.Basically, my kind of appreciation wink*
2) Red Alert. Be aware of any temporary state of confusion that a man could have between the arousal and the downfall of his pride. This can be noticed when the man does not how to respond; on one hand he will want to overpower the argument or situation in order to win it. But on the other hand he will be dazed by the powerful woman (most likely he could even be aroused by this, because who wouldn’t? wink*)Historically men have held power over things and women have held power over men sexually, think along the lines of famous femme fatales like Catwoman, Mrs. Robinson, Mata Hari, You… If you succeeded in invoking an episode of passive lost, you can create this moment as well.
3) Moderation is key. Clearly a chastity regime is important to achieve a submissive male, but you should not or cannot (and who would?) repress the man’s sexuality. You want to aim for making the most of his condition of need. You will want him to associate a little dependence and maybe a little bit of fear with arousal. The fact that you could walk without a shirt on his presence or wear tight clothes without him acting out on it or staring at you, means he has achieved a level of respect and reverence towards you and your body.
4) The right thing. If your man makes a mistake and looks at you when he shouldn’t, you will want to punish him. You will have to do it quick, giving him a slap for example. This will create that moment of confusion when he is aroused and hurt at the same time.
5) Infinity and beyond. Remember that a man’s compliance should be in the long term. A man who out of fear and veneration has to control his urges is quite a turn on. A man who gives me a massage when I’m tired, prepares me a meal everyday and hands me my towel when I’m out of the shower is amazing (is it getting hot in here?) This “mental castration” goes beyond simple chastity in controlling a man’s sexuality, given that it includes the mind and not just the body.
