Tips to Bring Bondage Into Your Relationship!
Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception. If you have found yourself each and every time more interested in bondage or some other type of kink and want to introduce it to your partner, this might interest you.
The first thing you want to do is inform yourself and understand your feelings. In order to introduce the subject to your partner, you must first come to grips with those feelings and emotions. After all, how can you talk about your interests if you don’t know what they are? You may want to get an idea about what exactly do you want to try or what aspects are the ones that draw your interest. If you approach the subject with your partner and are open and honest about it, chances are they will be excited and curious about trying things with you. Having said that, remember it’s usually better to start with light stuff and build up from there, so trying a blindfold, some role play, light spanking or handcuffs tend to be good places to test the waters. But of course, before you do any of those things, you will have to… talk about it! Of course wink*.
It’s better to discuss the subject when none of you are in rush, this will probably take some time and you don’t want to rush it. Be considerate about your partner’s feelings; if they are shocked, give them some time to digest it! These things take time so don’t give them ultimatums and let them process their feelings. Be open about what you’re feeling and expect the same from them. The more you talk about it, the more prepared they will be and the more easy it will be for them to come to grips about bondage.
When you are ready to try something to see how you both feel, remember to go easy, slow and talk about how you both felt afterwards. Honesty will be key, as usual. Beforehand, you can exchange some Internet articles about it and talk about your particular fantasies, it will help tons, trust me wink*. Remember bondage can be a great opportunity to bring something new to the relationship, as well as make it stronger, even outside the bedroom! Time, honesty and going slow will probably be your best allies, so good luck!
