Meet Matt

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I am well educated and am a college professor.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

Many years ago when I was in my early twenties I found myself attracted to the whole concept. Just loved it.

How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.

Dominant with a slight twist of submissive.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

More visual, so probably physical, nothing sexier than a woman tightly restrained and gagged and wiggling around.

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

I would say that I am not 24/7 and have never really been 24/7 but would like to indulge that part of things if possible.

What was your best bondage experience?

My best bondage experience was with a girl I knew in college that was a fun experience. She liked it nice and tight. Very exciting for her and me.

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

Have a pleasurable time. If it ain’t enjoyable what is the point.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Know yourself so you know what you will do and what you won’t. Saying you have no limits is a lie. Everyone has limits you have to find out what yours are. So, know thyself as Socrates stated.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?

I love armbinders. Women are very sexy when restrained in armbinders makes all the right parts stick out. A good chastity belt is a close second with various plugs.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

I think that it would be interesting to have a session with a strict Mistress. That could be fun.

How do you feel about the return of the 90‘sMullet Hair Style? Are you for or against and why?

How about we find something original to go to instead of rehashing the past.

Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or goofy knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.

Remember the whole point of the exercise is to have fun. If it isn’t fun anymore stop. Don’t take things to seriously there is enough of that in the world.