Meet Tyler

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I'm the average 21-year-old guy by day, going to work and occasional drinking and small parties with friends. Generally just living day to day.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

I first realized I was into bondage after I realized I was into anal play, and slowly it evolved from watching normal porn, to femdom, to full sissy training and sub-oriented stuff.

How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

I am FULLY submissive under the covers. During the day most people would see me as a fairly manly guy, but at night I change and essentially become a sub slave for nearly anyone that would have me.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

I believe that my desire for bondage is all of physical, emotional, and mental. Physically, being restrained and detained is such a thrill, as you nearly cannot control how or when you get off. Emotionally, my desires have changed from liking submissive girls, to dominant girls and even large, dominant men. It's almost as if I now crave to be dominated. Mentally, I am very much into forced sissification and my thoughts have been melted and moved toward more lustful ones since I've begun bondage.

Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?

Generally, when I have lovers over, I use the Internet to search for people who are into kink, and then sort of spring all my tools towards them to use on me. Most are VERY accepting and even love to tease me with my chastity devices and various ropes.

Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

After I became interested in anal play, it took about a year for my desires to become kinkier and kinkier. My first real bondage fetish was male chastity. The feeling of desire building up with no release was honestly anecstasy to me. I browsed amazon for some cheap devices and found one. When it arrived, I put it on immediately and...It was a pretty low quality cage to be honest. Too long, heavy, and uncomfortable. But I wore it, simply for the mental fetish that it provided.

What was your best bondage experience?

I'm not sure how I can answer this with a PG-13 but here goes. So I had been wearing a CB6000 chastity device for about a month with no orgasm, and I was REALLY horny one night, so I found someone online who would...help me with my problem. I let him know about my bondage toys and we went on a drive. Still in my chastity, we drove to a dead end road (which was a bit scary, but I was horny so I wasn't really concerned). We stopped at some railing leading to an old abandoned house, got out most of my gear, including a ball gag, spreader bar, and handcuffs. I did oral with him, and then he put the gag in and went to my butt. We had sex for about 30 minutes, me forcefully spread, gagged, and handcuffed to a rail while in chastity. I actually ejaculated without taking off the cage, which had never happened before. We unlocked everything but my cage and went home.

What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?

I don't usually use safe words; I don't have anything incredibly dangerous, or deal with people who would harm me.

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

The most important thing is that you feel safe, while also being restrained. If you can't move, you know you're doing it right.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

If you're just starting out, I would recommend finding some people in your area with similar interests whom you can experiment with. It’s hard to do bondage alone effectively. Other than that, just let your partner know how much you're comfortable with.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?

My favorite thing I've ever gotten is the 1384 AR Sissy tease and Denial locking pink cock chastity device, honestly with a little bit of sandpaper, this device is my longest lasting and favorite cage to date. It is small enough that even my tiny penis can fit, yet is made of a SLIGHTLY expanding resin that helps with morning discomfort.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

I want to be completely restrained, literally unable to move more than just a wiggle. Propped up along a wall, feet above head, butt sticking out. I think not being able to control anything is the most erotic fantasy I have.

What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?

Knock Knock

Who's there

The SS

The SS wh-

*smack* Vevill ask ze questions here

What is Eskimo ice?

Eskimo ice is a brand of ice,i swear I've seen bags of it in some supermarkets.