Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
Somewhat boring person with a fairly routine life.
How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or FuzzyRainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.
Switch-curious submissive. I’m mostly submissive, but so are most people that I meet, so learning about the other side of things opens up some opportunity. I think that most of my submissive nature is wanting to please people, so if that can be done by learning to dom then learning to dom will take place.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
There has always been some fascination with restraints. I was probably in my early twenties when I saw it as more than just a fascination.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
Emotional. Perhaps mental may be better. Being unable to do things physically leaves no choice but to sort through things mentally. Bondage helps me sort things out in my mind.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
More playtime than anything else.
Can you describe your first bondage experience?
It started with curiosity over whether or not I could escape a straightjacket. I called contacted a dominatrix because I figured they would probably have one I could try with. She didn’t but agreed that if I bought her one then she would give me an hour of her time to try and escape from it. Unfortunately, I clicked on the wrong button while ordering one and got one size too small. With a little straining she managed to get me into it but it was such a tight fit that I couldn’t move in it. The strain was such that I broke one of the rivets just trying to move. But we talked a bit and ended up scheduling a rope session later that week.
What was your best bondage experience?
Latex sleep sack. My first introduction to latex products and the sensation was incredible.
Which part of your body do you consider the most sexy?
Legs
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
Read up on it first. Look for stories of things going wrong so you’ll have a better idea of things you may want to avoid. Get to know your partner well before trying anything. Buy lots of stuff from the Sub-Shop.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?
Straightjacket. It was my gateway restraint (see first bondage experience).
What is your favourite knock-knock joke?
Knock, knock.
Who’s there?
The interrupting cow.
The inter-
MOO!
Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or more knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.
I like that you included ball gags in that. I’ve met a few people in life that I wanted to anonymously send a ball gag to and hope they got the point. (No, the point has nothing to do with wanting to start a BDSM relationship with them.)
