Must Try Sexual Fetishes for Long Term Couples

Some couples tend to fall into a sexual routine over the years. It is never a good thing for your relationship and so you should avoid it at all costs. You might be able to see the first signs of a dull sex life beginning for you and your lover. Then again, you might not notice it until it gets to a dangerous level. Either way, you should try to spice things up in the bedroom often and as soon as possible. Luckily, there are many ways to do it. All you need is an open mind and a certain level of sexual curiosity plus a good imagination to discover new levels to your sexuality. You might also need to invest a little in your sexual arsenal but it will be worth it for the sake of your sex life more so for your entire intimate relationship. If you don’t know where to start but you know you want to have new sexual experiences, here are some of the hottest fetishes and sex games you and your lover can dive into!

1. Pet and pony

One of the newest and most intense fetishes for couples try out nowadays is the pet and pony fetish. But remember to talk with your partner before the sex scene to see if it is something both of you can enjoy. Then again, everyone can get pleasure from it and do so with a minimum investment. If you have a good imagination and like to exchange control during sex, you don’t need anything else. You can use certain sex toys and accessories to make it look more realistic such as a fur tail or a bone shaped gag. You can even combine pet and pony fetish with different types of sexual intercourse and sexual stimulation to reach a more intense orgasm. The exciting side of this fetish is the control you have over your “pet” partner, which can be anything from a kitten to a puppy. You can even have some impact play and use a paddle shaped as a kitten to make the sex scene more intense.

2. Bondage games

Bondage games are a great way to get started into BDSM fetishes and fantasies. Moreover, they can be as exciting as you want them to be. All you need is some rope and a good imagination to get started with a great bondage game. Try to take it slow so you can enjoy every moment and learn new techniques to satisfy your sexuality. A lot of exciting sex toys and accessories can be used during your bondage scenes. All you need is an open mind to experiment with all the levels of such an exciting fetish. To begin, decide who the submissive partner is and who the dominant one is. Be sure to establish a safe word so you can stop the intensity of your bondage scene once one of you starts to feel uncomfortable with it.

3. Chastity

Chastity games are also a great way to spice things up between you and your partner. The idea of being in control of your lover’s genitalia is a real turn on. This control extends to their orgasm as well as it will not happen unless you allow them to reach such an intense point of sexual pleasure. Remember, you can be as creative as you want during a chastity sex scene and even include some dirty talk to increase the excitement for both of you. Make sure not to push the orgasm control to a point it might be too much to take for you or your partner especially if you are both beginners to this. Nevertheless, such a fetish can really spice up your sex life and add the needed diversity to your intimate life!