Tips for Your First Bondage Experience

The world of BDSM fetishes and fantasies is a fascinating place for enthusiasts. But even if you are not into BDSM practices, you can still enjoy a good and intense session of bondage. There are many ways you can incorporate bondage into your sex life by using your imagination and creative skills. Also, the market offers you a variety of sex toys and accessories to go hand in hand with a good and exciting bondage experience. However, if you are a beginner to bondage games, you should know this is a gradual experience and you should enjoy every step of the journey. Don’t dive into edge play games or suspension bondage for your first time.

Here are some tips and tricks for light bondage to help you enjoy and get started in this fetish with your partner. You can choose to work your way up to more intense sexual practices related to it.

1. Start with the basics

Before you get into bondage games, you should get familiar with the main sex toys and accessories required for such practices. All you need to get started into this sexual journey is a good quality rope or a roll of tape. After you decide who the submissive partner is and who is the dominant one, you can now assume the roles and tie your partner up to have more control over his or her body. You can do the same by using the tape and several other bondage accessories such as handcuffs, arm binders or body harnesses. Restraining your partner’s body will give you access to their intimate areas and erogenous zones. It will give you the freedom to stimulate them as you desire. You can add bondage during sexual intercourse to experience a more intense level of sexual satisfaction and pleasure. However, as a beginner, it is important to focus on using your rope or tape in a way to give both of you a heightened feeling of excitement and adrenaline rush mixed with a great wave of sexual energy.

2. Have a safe word

The level of control you have should be agreed upon before the sexual encounter. Even if you do this, a first-time bondage scene can bring a lot of surprises for both of you. This is the reason why it’s important to establish a safe word before things get out of hand and one of you starts feeling uncomfortable during the sexual encounter. This way, if your bondage techniques become too much for you or your partner, you can say the safe word to decrease the level of intensity or even change the course of sexual events. This will establish a balance of pleasure and pain both of you can enjoy. Be careful in choosing a safe word. It should be a word you wouldn’t normally use during a sex scene such as “coffee” or “sunshine” so it can easily be identified by both of you. When you use the safe word, the sexual action does not have to stop; instead, it must change in a way to be enjoyable for both of you. Remember the main rule of bondage and BDSM games is for everyone to agree on everything to take place in your sex scene.

3. Keep an open mind

Since a bondage scene is not a casual sex activity, you should try to stay open to new sensations and experiences. Such scenes bring a lot of spontaneous desires for both individuals involved. Even if your first thought is to say no to some of those, you should still consider giving them a try before deciding whether you like them or not. Have an open conversation with your partner before the sexual encounter starts to be aware of each other’s expectations. Having an honest communication with your partner will help you develop your sexuality as well as your intimate relationship. Mutual support is very important when it comes to experiencing new fetishes and fantasies such as bondage games.