Menopause is one of the major changes for a woman and it comes at a difficult age as well, so it can have a high impact on their sexuality. If you are going through such a period, you should definitely learn to rediscover your sexuality and embrace it in all its new forms because mature women know the best way to achieve great levels of sexual pleasure and satisfaction and, in consequence, intense and exciting orgasms. But since you were never through menopause before, here are some tips that you should consider while you are going through such important changes that are both physical and mental ones.
1. Learn to appreciate your body again
As your body goes through several changes, being aware of each one of them is important in order to understand yourself and be able to rediscover your sexuality again. Because besides the fact that your breasts might increase in size naturally, you will also develop new sexual desires that you should not underestimate. And your partner will be more than happy to enjoy your new sexual preferences with you. Learn to understand the changes of your body but also the changes of your mind. You will not look at yourself the same and you will have different expectation from your sex life. Chances are that you will become more exigent as time goes by and your standards will be higher because you will know exactly what you are looking for. Explore and admire your body in the mirror to get used to the new shapes of it and even engage in more masturbation sessions by using your favorite vibrators and dildos. Stimulate your breasts by wearing a hot pair of nipple clamps and see if they feel different than before because sometimes breast stimulation is getting more intense over time and you might be lucky to discover a new sexual pleasure along the way!
2. Be proud of your sexual experience
By the time you reach menopause, you most likely gathered a lot of sexual experience and you discovered many aspects of your sexuality. And you should be proud of your sexual experience and even more than that, use it in your own benefit and for the best of your relationships. The fact that you are comfortable using several sex toys and accessories only brings you a plus of value in the bedroom and makes you more attractive to a variety of different men. So, you might actually be more sexually active after you reached menopause. But to get to be comfortable and proud of your sexual experience, you will also go through a phase of confusion and low sex drive that you should see it coming and know how to manage. Understand that it is a transition process and your body is dealing with a lot of hormones during this phase. But once you get back to a balanced point, you will be ready to enjoy an exciting sex life again and even improve it compared to what you are used to experience.
3. Try new sexual fetishes and fantasies
After you overcome the menopause phase and master your own sexuality again, even better than before, you are ready to discover and entertain new sexual fetishes and fantasies. If anal sex was never on your “to do” list, now it might be a perfect time to give it a try and see just how much sexual excitement this practice brings. Start by using a butt plug and get comfortable with such a stimulation before you dive into deep anal intercourse with your partner. The market offers a variety of anal toys that you can enjoy and they come in a multitude of colors and sizes for each person’s needs. Once you like such a sexual stimulation, you will be ready to satisfy both you and your lover with an intense sex scene of anal intercourse and you can incorporate this practice into a variety of sexual encounters.
