Do you have a sexual habit that you almost always do before, during or after sex? Or do you have some sort of ritual that you like to engage in during a masturbation session? While sexual routine is not the best path to an intense sex life, having some sort of routine can help you have better sexual encounter and even be more organized in bed which is always a good thing! It is important to find a balance between falling into a sex routine that will damage your relationship and a sex routine that will actually make your relationship better! And here are some useful tips to help you develop such a process!
Take a shower before sex
Taking a shower can be an obvious reason for hygiene purposes and it can also be implied for most couples. Shower before and shower after and if you get naughty you can even have sex in the shower. There is a lot of good aspects about having a shower but one of them is sexual stimulation. While you are in the shower, chances are you will touch several parts of your body. Especially the intimate ones since you will use those the most during the sexual encounter that is about to start. And while you are doing so, it is almost impossible not to get aroused and excited. This kind of lonely game will prepare you emotionally and physically for a more intense sexual intercourse or sexual stimulation with your partner. And it is even recommended before having a complex session of masturbation. You will discover all your favorite erogenous zones all over again and will look forward to stimulating them as soon as you are done with the shower process. Also, being fresh and feeling clean, increases your self-confidence and we all know how important confidence is during a sex scene!
Always save the best for last
If you are into some kind of specific sex such as anal sex, it is best to save it for your orgasm time. You might think that starting with your favorite sexual practice is better because it does lead you to an intense orgasm, but it works better the other way. If you stimulate your body in ways that you know will not give you the orgasm that you want, you will be able to save the best part for the moment when you want to end the sexual encounter and actually climax. So, put your butt plug aside and enjoy your vagina for a second or your penis, works just as fine for men and women equally so you can follow this rule regardless to what gender you are! Use a vibrator or an orgasm belt or whatever toys you might enjoy but save the goodies for the end. This will make your ultimate orgasms o much more intense and it will also help you master your own sexuality to a professional level that will give you a lot of security and satisfaction!
Make your partner a priority
Yes, you want to have an orgasm and you want to reach new levels of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. But you are not doing it alone, are you? You have to satisfy your partner too because selfish sex is never as fulfilling as empathic sex can be. And the good part is that they will make a point out of satisfying you as well and by following this strategy, both of you will be just as pleased! If you don’t have the energy to invest in it, make sure to use some sex toys such as nipple clamps for instance because they can replace your hands very efficiently when it comes to pleasing your girl. They will notice your consideration and they will make sure to reciprocate in a way that is just as intense and so you will understand why mutual stimulation is the key to a successful sexual encounter!
