Sexual freedom might be a state that we don’t even realize how much we need but when we reach it, everything is different. Our life changes, our relationship changes and our perspective of our own sexuality becomes more clear and more accurate. All these benefits of sexual freedom make us more appealing to other people and more confident in our own sexuality. Within the BDSM community, sexual freedom is one of the main conditions because the BDSM enthusiasts are all about exploring their sexuality and discover new levels of pleasure and sexual satisfaction. But how can you reach this sexual heaven and how can you make your partner join you? Stay with us and you will find some secrets!
First of all, your partner might be the more conservative type which will make it a little harder for you to experience the beauty and excitement of many sexual fetishes. Also, this will shut down some of your fantasies by not allowing you to share them or experience them. If you want to reach your sexual freedom along with your partner try the negotiation phase before anything else. Explain why you are turned on by certain practices and how much you would like to try them with you. Buy some toys that are exciting for both and new at the same time because new sex toys and accessories always sparkle the curiosity in our human nature. When your partner will see your new nipple clamps or orgasm belt, they might get so curios about them that they will consider giving them a try. And a fair try is all you need because who can resist a good breast stimulation? You can apply the same strategy with the bondage gear such as ropes or tape and talk about how exciting would be to have them try a bondage sexual encounter with you. Watching erotic BDSM videos is also a great alternative. Once they join you in one of your sexual fantasies, they will be hooked for good because within the BDSM community there is something for everyone and they will find their own fetishes in no time. And this is what sexual freedom is all about. The power to express our fantasies and do our best to reach them by using whatever sex toys and accessories we find exciting. There is nothing hotter than sharing this experiences with someone we love! However, single people also have this chance!
As a single individual you might find it frustrating to want to try so many new sexual games and not have with whom to try them! But this is very far from the truth! You can find many other people that are into BDSM and have hot and exciting affairs with them and who knows, maybe you even find a steady relationship for your near future! BDSM offers great sexual fetishes for masturbation too. So, you can reach your sexual freedom by yourself, when you release your inhibitions and let your sexual ego materialize in a bunch of practices, one more intense than the other! You will have to overcome the limits that you probably set up for yourself and allow your body to experience new sensations that might change your perspective on sexuality all together! Also, make sure to make time in your schedule, no matter how busy it is, to please yourself and give yourself the love and attention that you need. Sexual freedom doesn’t depend on having or not having a partner, it depends on how in touch you are with your sexuality and what are your deepest desires.
There are people who want to have a free sexuality but they keep indulging into their inhibitions and limits and this is never the way to a successful sexual life! Start by getting to know yourself before you share who you are and what you want with other people and respect your fantasies because, after all, they make you happy!
