Orgasm denial can be a lot of fun (more fun than it sounds like, I promise!), whether you are doing it with a partner or on your own. More and more men are getting into it because they have discovered how great it can be, and I don’t blame them! If you have finally decided to take the leap towards it, there are some things you should keep in mind. When your new device comes in the mail, you should first try it out for a few days to see if it fits you right. The base ring can sometimes be too small or too big, some chaffing can occur, and other problems that will definitely hinder your experience.
Remember chastity takes a lot of self control, like being at a dinner and tell yourself you won’t touch the bread basket, not checking social media at work, telling yourself you “are not drinking tonight” at a party, being aroused and not being able to come… You get what I mean, tempting things that need a lot of willpower.
So, how do you do bondage on your own? Who holds the key? Well, you! But before starting on the fun part, keep an emergency back-up key and save it someplace you won’t forget. This will be just in case of emergencies, but if you don’t trust yourself because you know where it is, just put it on a water bottle and freeze it. If you want to cheat, you will still need to defrost the key, wink*.
When that is out of the way, what games can you play? Glad you asked, dear boy. There are numerous ways to do it, so I’ll go through some of them to give you ideas:
- You can mail the key to yourself and wait for it to arrive. Let’s just hope there are not any delays…or that mail doesn’t get lost wink*.
- You can also train yourself to embrace healthier habits. For example, going to the gym. You can ask someone to put the key in a locker with a combination, write it down and give it to the reception. When you are done working out, you can ask for the combination. You can do this weekly, daily, monthly… I’m sure you are already making up a plan in your head wink*
- You can try the method above with basically any habit you want to break or start, modifying and adapting it to the situation.
- You can also get a lot of key blanks (locksmiths usually have plenty of them), put them on a bowl with your chastity key and mix it up. You won’t know which one is your key and it’s up to you how often you will try a key. Maybe you can try once every week, or two times a week? Once a month? You know best.
- You can also do the scenario above but trying a key as a reward only after doing something you are training yourself to do. Like, you haven’t drunk soda in three days, so you can try a key. Or you went for a run, so you can reward yourself by trying one, etc.
- A fun way is to roll a dice to determine how many days you will stay locked up. All you have to do is assign a number of days to each number, so luck will determine how long you will stay on the chastity device. Will luck be on your side?
- Also, you can use other forms of bondage…while your key is in the other room at your house. There are many variations to this. You can also insert a plug and do house chores and only get to your key when you are done. Or you can completely tie yourself up and try to get to that key…
