3 Signs You Are Into BDSM

The BDSM community is one of the most complex communities worldwide. It attracts couples of different genders and sexual orientations. You don’t even have to be in a relationship to enjoy a hot BDSM sex scene. So, you will find plenty of singles who are ready to indulge you in a new fantasy! Even if you and your partner are not officially into BDSM practices, it doesn’t mean both of you might not get into these fetishes later on. Some couples don’t even realize they are into BDSM fantasies until they pay attention to certain signs. So you have to be aware what signs show such a sexual preference for you or your lover to know if it is worth exploring. You might be amazed to discover just how attracted you are to a BDSM fetish you didn’t even know about or haven’t even tried. Here are some of the most obvious signs to pay attention to if you want to know just how much you would enjoy a BDSM sexual encounter.

1. You like to be in control during sex

Do you enjoy the idea of being in control during your sexual encounters? Do you masturbate sometimes with the thought of whipping or spanking your lover? If you answer yes twice, then these are clear signs you like to be in control during your sexual encounters. Likewise, if you catch yourself spanking your lover out of the blue on your most intimate moments to spice things up even more. You might be a dominant undiscovered just yet. Try to watch certain erotic videos based on bondage or BDSM fetishes and pay attention to how much such videos turn you on. If you have the best masturbation session of your life while watching such erotic videos, it might be time to give it a try in your real sex life. If your partner is not into these types of games, don’t worry, you have many options to convince them to give it a fair try. One of these options is to purchase some hot and exciting sex toys and accessories to spark their imagination and curiosity.

2. You like to use certain sex toys and accessories

Your choice of sex toys and accessories can say a lot about your sexual preferences as well. If you are into nipple clamps, handcuffs or floggers, then it is no doubt you might enjoy a BDSM fetish or some sort of bondage fantasy. You never know until you actually give it a try! Share your preference of sex toys and accessories with your partner and see what they think about it. If both of you are on the same page, then go ahead and set up a BDSM sex scene to find out how much fun you can have with it. Start it soft and let it develop until both of you become more comfortable with such a sexual encounter.

3. You get turned on by dirty talk

Dirty talk is a great fetish for BDSM practitioners and it can be enjoyed at different levels as well. Pay attention to see if you get turned on by your lover’s naughty words. If you find some sort of sexual pleasure and satisfaction from it then you can always upgrade to verbal humiliation. Verbal humiliation is a great form of sexual stimulation to lead both of you to intense orgasms before you even realize it. All you have to do is free your mind and let your imagination and kinkiness take over your language. Your lover will be more than happy to join you in this sexual adventure. Hence, both of you might become BDSM fans soon enough!