Grinding with a guy is a great way to turn him on… in a sort of subtle style, wink* There is something arousing and sexy about pressing your butt against his crotch… and feeling it get larger by the minute, of course. So if you want a guide to doing this while being discreet, you will want to keep reading this.
Oh! And keep in mind you do need to be aware there is a line between being flirty and sexy and going overboard and crass, so do be careful, please.
In order to grind against a guy, you need to be in the perfect place to do this (in the middle of a coffee shop, it would probably get people calling the police), so a club tends to be the ideal place to do it.
Grinding is simply the act of moving your ass against a man’s crotch; that is why dancing can be a very natural way of doing this. When you are dancing it is quite easy to get lost in the moment and simply grind against each other, thus the club is ‘the place’ to try it.
You can begin by getting a girlfriend to dance with you; dancing alone makes grinding a bit more difficult. Get on the dance floor with your friend and rip the floor; you need to make it seem as if you were really into it and you weren’t paying attention to any man. But obviously, there will be a bunch of guys around, especially when two women are dancing on their own.
The next step is to move closer and dance nearby the man you like. Don’t look at him or anything, just watch him from the corner of your eye. It is always good to subtly see if he is aware you are there. If he isn’t aware, move closer to him and dance as if he weren’t there; don’t pay him any attention.
After a few moments, you will need to get closer to him and accidentally brush him with your butt. Don’t wait for him to do something or do anything else; the idea is for him to see you are dancing with your friend close to him and are occasionally rubbing against him. But once again, try to be very subtle. You want him to either make a move or keep going back for more.
When you are dancing, move your shoulders so that your breasts can touch is arm every once in a while. If he smiles, notices you, or moves closer, flash him a smile so he can see you are aware of his presence. You don’t want to make it seem as if the touches were on purpose!
Later, you can keep your hands by your sides (while you are dancing) and let them linger close to his butt and legs. He will move closer to get you to touch him, but you don’t want to make the first touch. He will need to work for that wink*
You can also dance right next to him to build a little bit of sexual tension; let your hands and hips touch every now and then because this is all about momentum. And don’t forget about your friend! Have fun with her and dance while all of this is happening.
Let your fingers touch his’ when you are dancing: if your fingers touch, don’t move them away but don’t do anything else. He will probably want to grab your hand, so let him make the first contact.
After some time, you will want to move right in front of him. Move your pelvis so that your butt can touch his thigh often; he will probably move behind you. Once he is there, get close to him and press your ass against his crotch. You will dance as well, but you want to pay extra attention to the swaying up your hips so he can feel it.
