Every girl loves masturbating and touching herself, right? Don’t get me wrong; sex and sexual interactions with someone else are great of course, but if you ask me, there is something very special about pleasuring oneself that can’t be replicated. And that is fine! Both masturbation and sexual activities with someone else bring something different to the table…so why not mix both of them? But only from time to time because some times you just need to go out it all alone wink*
Even if you haven’t really had that conversation, basically almost human being gets turned on by watching their partner touching himself or herself. I don’t know the scientific details, but it definitely triggers some very tingling sensations when you watch a person touching and arousing their own body…is it getting hot in here or what?
Probably one of the main things about masturbating in front of your partner is the visual aspect of it all. People digest things visually at first, and sexual attraction and arousal are not an exception. And for some reason, it has been proven this is even truer for all men; they are extremely visual creatures, so it is not a surprise they love watching their partner go at. I say we just blame evolution for that one…
Masturbation can also be a life safer if you didn’t get to orgasm during sex. It’s not a secret sometimes women don’t achieve climax during sex from one reason or another, so masturbating…to finish things off is a great option. And it’s not like you need to go and hide it, just go right at it with your partner right there…I mean, after all he can definitely help along, it doesn’t have to be all about penetration.
You can touch yourself while your partner plays with your breasts and nipples, kisses your neck and caresses you all over. You two can get creative as well, if you’re into anal play, just let him play with his fingers or a toy while you are doing your thing. Is a winner combination because 4 sets of hands do much more than 2 hands can possibly ever get to do.
And why not try it while you are having sex? If your man is penetrating you, you can take things into your own hands, literally (sorry, couldn’t resist) to get there quicker. And let’s face it: it is also super hot for them to watch you rubbing yourself while they are penetrating you during intercourse.
Most times, you will find your partner simply cannot resist joining in…because it’s really hot you guys! If you make a simple poll, I can assure you most men would answer that most times they see their partner touching herself they can’t keep the hands to themselves. Who can blame them after all?
If you are into the dominant-submissive dynamic, you can always make your partner watch with their clothes on from a safe distance from where you are. If you are a bit shy, this can be a great step towards letting go and being a bit kinkier. And if you are waay too shy, you can always put on a blindfold. I mean, if you can’t see them you probably won’t get embarrassed and it will make the whole thing sexier and more intense.
Bottom lime is, men love it and you will love it as well. There is something very empowering about the whole thing, like: yes, I’m touching myself and getting my pleasure right in front of you…or something like that wink* And let’s not forget about the boost of confidence this can bring; even if you don’t feel like it will do much, just try it and talk to me later. And for men, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman who enjoys her own body and it’s not afraid to go after the pleasure they need.
