Ways to Increase a Woman's Libido

A woman goes through different biological and mental changes throughout her life and these changes can have a direct and negative impact on their libido. The sex drive rarely stays constant over years and some efforts are welcome when a woman needs a sexual boost. While the libido can also be increased by a good diet and certain ingredients, the partner has an important role in the process as well. A variety of sexual practices can be one of the best things to do to increase a woman’s libido but that is not the first step toward it for sure. Let’s see what are the main tips that you can use to stimulate your woman’s libido but also what she can do to increase it herself.

1. Red wine

Red wine is a miraculous drink and it has many health benefits. But a glass of red wine, not the entire bottle, will wake up your woman’s senses and sparkle her libido along the way. You can incorporate red wine into a romantic dinner and create a romantic atmosphere to lead the events toward an even more romantic sexual encounter. Your woman will be impressed by your gesture, and she might get in the mood of having an intimate evening with you. This will not increase her libido on the long run but with constant attention and implication, it is definitely a great start and can bring you closer as a couple. A lack of intimacy can also be one of the main reasons for a lack of libido in women because they rely a lot on their emotional side and this is what you, as her partner, have to stimulate before you are trying to take off her sexy outfit.

2. New sex toys and accessories

Introducing her to new toys and accessories might sparkle her curiosity and from that to an increased sex drive is a small step. Curios women will always want to experience new sexual sensations and when she sees that new pair of nipple clamps or that new flogger you got for her she might be eager to try them out with you. Also, using a vibrator to stimulate her even more can be highly efficient. All she will have to do is let herself in your hands and give you full control over her body and sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Over time she will also initiate sexual encounters and will get back to be the exciting woman that she used to be but for now, you are the main key to her sex drive and the market offers you a variety of options to try in this process.

3. Sexy outfits

A sexy woman will always want to share her sexuality with her partner. If you find yourself lacking sexual interest in your partner and not feeling very excited nowadays, it might be time for some good investment in yourself. As a woman, you will need to love yourself first before trying to love someone else and if you are happy with the way you look, you will also be happy to share that look and spread the sexual pleasure around you. Buy a sexy outfit every now and then or a sexy lingerie. Watch your body in the mirror and start appreciating it more by touching yourself and giving yourself. When you lose your libido you also need to rediscover yourself as part of gaining it back. And understanding your own body and sexuality is essential for this.

While a loss of sex drive is not permanent, especially in young women, it can become quite severe if it is neglected. The communication between you and your partner is very important during such times because only by communicating you can identify the root of the problem and overcome it. But also, increasing the intimacy level of your relationship and playing sexual games even if she is not so up for them, might have a significant impact in solving this uncomfortable situation.