Meet JP1

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

Heavy equipment operator & commercial driver.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

Early on, I Ioved the DiD’s from TV shows like Knight Rider, The A-Team and The X-Files later on in life. I think that drove my love for seeing beautiful women bound and gagged.

How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

Dominant. But I have bottomed through my first experiences (for the most part).

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

It is a very good mixture of both.... I love the power exchange of seeing a woman struggling in her restraints... Whimpering through a gag... And pleading with huge, sad eyes.

I also love to see the woman fall into a sense of security when bound and gagged. She understands that she cannot escape and realizes that I will not harm her. The sense of acceptance and the "giving in" to my bonds is a huge turn on for both of us! The power exchange from a bottom giving control to the top and having complete confidence in the top as the one in charge is why I love the D/S ideals.

Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?

For the most part, yes.

Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

Tied my partner to the bed (very loosely) and proceeded to mess with her head. She could have EASILY got out of her restraints at any time, but she loved it!

What was your best bondage experience?

I used restraints on a nakedwoman and then blindfolded her. Then, I rubbed numerous household items on her skin (chilling some, heating some & electrifying some). My favorite part was seeing how she reacted to each item.

What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?

A woman's dead pet fish's name...

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

The enjoyment from both parties and the exchange of power between the two during the scene.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Don't read 50 Shades and try everything slowly. COMMUNICATE to see if this is good or bad for both parties involved. And DON'T try any rope work without having a pair of safety scissors (to cut a person out of their ropes if things go south quickly) close!

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?

Gags. I love watching a woman drooling uncontrollably, (and she has no means to stop it)... ;-)

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

Mummification or a Vac Bed

What’s your favourite knock-knock joke?

The cheesiest ones are the best!

What is Eskimo ice?

Akutaq? Raw meat flavoured with berries to simulate ice cream. I haven't tired it myself though.