Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I love being a submissive. I’m 21 and I’ve been in a faithful relationship for about 4 years now; I've known my fiancé since middle school. I feel like she still hasn’t fully embraced the dominant role; maybe she doesn't know how because I'm a very masculine man so it's hard for her at times.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

I saw the category of BDSM on porn websites when I was younger and it was just interesting to me. As I grew up I started trying things realizing I like pain and things grew from there.

How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

I am submissive in the bedroom but not in every day life.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

My desires are more emotional I like being humiliated giving over control to some one else and seeing what they do with it.

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

BDSM is my sexual preference.

Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?

I eased my fiancée into everything, but she was always very accepting.

Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

My first bondage experience was when I put a girlfriend into handcuffs and spanked her.

What was your best bondage experience?

My best was I was tied up while my fiancé pegged me.

What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?

I've never had a safe word. I trust my fiancé.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Advice? Give everything a try once.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?

And how the hell could I pick a favorite I love everything and use them together.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

I would love to have a threesome with two dominatrix.

What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?

And I can't for the life of me think of a decent knock knock joke.

What is Eskimo ice?

No idea what Eskimo ice is but it sounds dirty.

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