The Art of Flirting - How To Charm Any Woman
When you like a girl, you want to charm her… that is a kind of the whole point wink* But most of the time, you are not quite sure what that means, and you can end up blowing your chances with her. You can take some tips into account to delight the woman you most want to pursue; it doesn’t have anything to do with how you look.
Before we start, we should clear up what fair means. It doesn’t mean you have to use your tried flirting moves or that you should touch her in unusual places. All it means is to delight her to the point she will want to come home with you on the spot. Remember: every guy can have some flirty eye contact with a girl, but not all of them know how to charm her wink*
To begin with, you will need to be a master in the art of conversation; this will be your first step towards charming her. A lot of men tend to overlook the fact that basically, every woman wants to feel as if she is outstanding; she wants to know you are paying attention to what she says. If you are trying to charm a woman, you want to know what is going on in her mind; ask her about the things she likes and enjoys her passions… try to find some common ground between the two of you so you can have an interesting conversation.
The next thing you will want to do is to flatter her. She will need to feel comfortable with you and you will need to let her know that you are interested in her in order to woo her. But if you start talking to her as if she were a friend you may enter the friendzone: friends don’t charm each other wink.* You want her to be comfortable with you, but she also needs to see you as a possible dating potential. That is why you need to give her some compliments.
Having said that, you want to stay away from generic things you think she wants to hear; things like ‘you are so beautiful’, ‘you have lovely eyes’, and the like are no go here. You should get into specifics; for instance, if you notice she has a new hairstyle or she has done something different with her hair say something like ‘I like the curls on you, they look really nice.’ The idea is for her to know you are attentive and pay attention to what she is doing. Besides, when you say the right thing you will make her smile and she will warm up to you.
Another thing you want to do is to show her a good time because who doesn’t want to be close to people that make us enjoy life a little more? There is no recipe to do this; I can’t tell you a foolproof thing that will make her laugh, so you will need to figure it out on your own. However, I can offer you some tips in that department.
You want to stay away from jokes. Most of the time you will end up sounding like you are trying too hard, but do feel free to make funny commentaries on what is going on around you. And second: be happy when you are interacting with her. That is contagious! Think about it, don’t you get nervous if the person you are talking to is anxious? It is really easy to give out whatever vibes you have.
And the cherry on the ice cream is flirting. Flirting can really make a difference when you are trying to charm her, just be careful not to overdo it. Start by casually asking what sort of places does she wants to go, what restaurant she wants to try, something fun she likes to do on the weekend… That way, you will know where to ask her out on a date and she will appreciate your effort in getting to know her better.