Easy Ways to Talk Your Man into Pegging

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject. I mean, it is not as if you will get out a harness and a dildo during sex and say, “honey, lube up, I’m penetrating you tonight” …Unless it’s a regular part of your sex life, if so, by all means have fun wink*. The important here is to be honest and willing to talk about it; everything should be fine.

If you are not the most expressive person when it comes to talking about sex with your partner, you will need to take it a bit lighter and slower. You can subtly hint about it to get the idea in your partner’s head; for instance, you can send him a link to a sexual story that involves pegging and say you find that interesting. Or you two can sit down and watch some porn that has pegging on it. You can discuss sexual fantasies and talk about it as well. If you’re a bit shyer, just come up right up front and just ask him how would he feel about being pegged. You never know how the other person feels until you ask them…you may be surprised wink*.

If your partner is a bit reluctant about being penetrated and how that may be associated with sexual orientation, you can remind them their prostate gland or p-spot (g-spot for the fellas) is located in the rectum. Besides, enjoying sexual acts has nothing to do with sexual preference; sexual preference comes from the brain, not the body wink*.

On the other hand, if you are a man who is interested in trying it, you can follow the same approach mentioned above. Share pegging material with your partner and tell her how hot you find that idea. Or tell her how you have always fantasized about getting pegged by her. If you want something more direct, just make the suggestion to gauge her reaction and see if it’s something she would be willing to try.

Before you two sex kittens get at it, it’s important to always take it extremely slow, especially if the man has not been penetrated before. You can start with your fingers slowly and build up from there; you can even use a butt plug until they are ready to try a dildo. Keep in mind, if it hurts, activity should be stopped because the body is not quite ready for it. When it comes to anal play, patience is key. And lube. Plenty of lubrication, don’t be shy wink*.