Multiple orgasms are not a phenomenon as many might believe. In fact, they can happen quite often, especially when you are in touch with your sexuality and if you have a strong connection with your partner. But it does take some experience and practice to reach this level of performance. Then again, it would appear women have an easier time achieving multiple orgasms than men during the same sexual encounter. The female anatomy seems to be the reason behind it.
The BDSM community provides plenty of ways to reach multiple orgasms during a sex scene provided you work together with your partner. Thus, there is no reason why both of you cannot achieve this goal. One thing is certain a session of multiple orgasms will change your opinion about orgasms in general. Moreover, make you raise your standards even higher than before. Here are some helpful tips to make it easier for you to achieve multiple orgasms!
1. Keep an open mind
It is important to consider all possibilities during sexual encounters. It is best not to set limits on your body as this can decrease your sexual satisfaction and cause you frustration. For instance, if you have never tried a butt plug it could be a good time to do so. Bear in mind, it can provide you with more sexual pleasure. In addition, stimulate you at different levels thereby letting you experience multiple orgasms in your session.
2. Oral sex is a must
Oral sex is great, in particular, for women who like having their partner go down on them. So, while your partner is taking care of your genitalia, just sit back and enjoy it. You should know this particular action increases the sexual energy in your body. It gets you more excited to try out new sexual positions, which is essential if you want to have multiple orgasms.
3. Take a timeout after the first orgasm
After you have your first orgasm, do not just call it a night. Simply relax for a few minutes next to your partner as you softly caress each other. By indulging in this kind of intimate moment, you have a better chance to get excited sooner than you expected. Thus, you will be ready to go again and have a more intense orgasm than the first. But before it happens, you can use some stimulators like a vibrator or some nipple clamps. Afterward, fight the sensitive sensation you will naturally feel after an orgasm. It is really mind over matter!
4. Try new toys
Trying new sexual toys is always a good idea, more so, when you want to experience multiple orgasms. Consider using a new toy after each orgasm. Focus on it so you can achieve an intense climax once more. Chances are your partner will be more than happy to join you. Thus, adding to the excitement and intrigue of the session. Don’t limit yourself to just a dildo. Go ahead and try devices. Remember, new toys mean new ways to reach sexual satisfaction and in turn lead you to discover new positions as well!
If you are a BDSM enthusiast, you should be able to find new ways to entertain your sexual energy and discover more sexual activities to spice up your encounters. Remember to keep these tips in mind the next time you aim to achieve multiple orgasms with your partner. To begin with, be imaginative and have an open mind. It is also best not to set too many limits on yourself. Next, do what makes you feel comfortable but be willing to experience something new when the occasion calls for it. It is possible you might enjoy it more than you expected. Moreover, allow yourself to gain new sexual abilities and sensations. Last but not the least; tell your partner what you would like to try with them to entice them to experience new sexual positions, toys, and sensations. Chances are they would be more than happy to join you once you tell them the advantages!
