3 Ways to Deal with Early Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation can become a problem for any couple. Yet while some men experience it as a temporary issue, others may suffer a more chronic version of it. However, it might give you comfort to know you are not the only one dealing with this affliction. Approximately 20 to 30 percent of men struggle with premature ejaculation. Moreover, it can affect men of all ages. Perhaps the hardest part is identifying the medical condition causing it in order to find the right treatment in your particular case. It is best to search for medical assistance as soon as you notice signs of premature ejaculation. But there are some tricks you can do at home to help alleviate or even prevent this unfortunate medical condition from happening.

1. Use new sex toys and accessories

Trying out new sex toys and accessories can help fight premature ejaculation, at the same time it will bring more benefits to your sex life. If you challenge your body to experience new sexual stimulations, you will also discover new ways to reach an orgasm and postpone your ejaculation. By using new sexual arsenal you can build a completely fresh and exciting sex scene with your partner. Try using a prostate stimulator or even a butt plug of your choice to discover new sexual pleasures and levels of satisfaction. If you are really creative you can add certain accessories to your sexual encounters such as bondage or different costumes to increase your sexual pleasure and satisfaction. It is also possible to discover new levels of your sexuality. Use this type of creativity during your long sessions of masturbation as well if you want to learn how to control your sexuality. All these ideas are bound to have a positive impact on your performance but also on the level of intimacy of your relationship.

2. Try various fetishes

There are certain fetishes you can try with your partner to overcome premature ejaculation. Some of the most popular ones are chastity fetishes and orgasm control. These fetishes will be more enjoyable if you are the submissive type. During such sexual encounters, your partner will have full control over your orgasm and you will not be allowed to indulge in it until they decide you can do so. With time, exercise and practice, you will learn to control your premature ejaculation and possibly, overcome it. Also, you will be able to appreciate other forms of sexual pleasure without focusing solely on reaching an orgasm, rather enjoy each step of your sexual experience. These fetishes are complex. But they tend to be very popular for BDSM enthusiasts since they can be extremely intense.

3. Focus more on the foreplay

Foreplay is an important and intense phase of a good sexual encounter and you shouldn’t skip it, especially if you struggle with premature ejaculation. A developed foreplay session teaches you to be patient and not rush toward an intense orgasm. So, it can be a big step in overcoming your premature ejaculation problem. If you communicate with your partner, the two of you can work as a team on this issue and discover new ways to fix it together. Thus, it can also develop your sex life a lot. During foreplay, focus on your lover’s body and the excitement both of you are feeling in order to stimulate your body but without leading to an orgasm yet. Bear in mind, quickies will not help you overcome premature ejaculation so you should include a decent amount of time for foreplay during most of your sexual encounters to help fix this medical condition.

Remember you don’t have to do it all alone. The support from your lover and the right approach can be the keys to solving your problem of premature ejaculation.

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