One of the sexiest acts you can try during foreplay is to give your partner a hand job. It is a good alternative to blow jobs and they are completely underrated (at least in my opinion) I think it is because a lot of women feel intimidated by them and think, ”Hey, he can do that himself,” and has been actually doing it since he was a teenager. “So what should I bring to the table?” The reality is, it is always sexier when your partner does it for you…Isn’t it sexier when your partner masturbates you than when you do it all by yourself?
The next time you want to give him a hand job, you need to keep in mind these few tips. Probably, the most important one is that you will need to focus your attention over the whole penis. You may think you need to concentrate on the head, but a good hand job includes everything else, the entire shaft. Just as your own lady bits have a lot of nerve endings all over the place, the male member is no different. So that is why you have to keep stroking and jerking off the entire penis.
Be in a comfortable position
Firstly, keep in mind having a comfortable position while you are giving a hand job. Do it properly without bending his penis in a weird position, beware of penile fracture! You may opt to sit between your partner’s legs. He should be lying on his back, legs spread, so you can place yours beneath them. This position not only creates a very comfortable position for you both, it also allows you to have an intimate eye to eye contact.
Create teasing touches
Before you begin, make sure your hands are warm, at the very least at a room temperature level. You don’t want to touch your partner’s penis with freezing cold hands. Next, you don’t want to go in straight for the kill, so you should delicately touch, caress and tease his inner thigh, lower abdomen and pelvic region. Continue by trying different sensations on his penis, you can experiment by gently running the tails of a whip on him, or wrapping some pearl beads around your hands then move them up and down his penis. You can try with different things depending on what feels the best for your partner.
Make use of both hands
You may think you only need one hand to give a hand job, you can actually use two if that is something your partner enjoys (which they usually do). You should begin by touching his inner thigh and gently cupping his testicles and penis. Follow by combining both stroking his penis with one hand, to touching and massaging his perineum with the other one. Another technique that involves both hands is to put one hand at the top of his penis and the other one at the bottom, and then twist both hands in opposite directions. That will create a very nice and different sensation.
Take control
A key to a good hand job is to control the rhythm and pressure; you want to start with some light pressure and increase it depending on what your partner needs. No man wants you to start pressing hard right, don’t get too excited. Always start slowly and gently to build the tension. Don’t be afraid to ask him what he likes or needs, monitor both his verbal responses and his covert reactions.
Make sure to lubricate well
Just as well, keep lubrication nearby and don’t ever give a hand job without some lube. Lubrication will make the hand job better and will allow just the right amount of friction without chaffing. If you will be using condoms later on, just make sure to use lubrication that goes well with the type of condoms you will be using.
