Turning on your partner is a must have to experience a great sexual experience. And we all like to learn some new tricks every now and then, right? It is only natural to be on the look-out for new techniques to try in the bedroom…and what better guinea pig than your partner? As long as you try your best, I am sure there won’t be many complaints about it wink*
Foreplay is a huge part of sex, probably the most important aspect if I do say so myself. And the truth of the matter is, people can get easily bored with the activities; especially if you repeat the same things each and every time. I mean, don’t get me wrong, we all have our personal favorites that will never fail to get us in the mood, but if every day is just an exact copy of the day before last, things can grow stale very easily. So that is why is important to constantly be on the lookout for new stuff; new adventures are greatly welcomed!
You can begin by dressing in something very sexy that makes you feel great and sensual. Set the mood by lighting some candles, putting on some nice music, and just letting the ambience flow. By taking your time you can definitely make this experience go from A to A-plus! Start by kissing him and caressing him all over; take advantage of all the grinding and stimulation you can both get from this.
A very erogenous area for men that tends to get ignored really easily is the area just behind the ears and the earlobe itself. You will need to keep this in mind in order to stimulate that zone in the way you prefer. For instance, you can lightly stroke behind his ears with your nails and alternate with a little packs and kisses; or you can lick his earlobe while you scratch his neck or fondle areas bellow his navel…Run your tongue through his lobe and maybe whisper some sexy stuff? It’s up to you, the sex goddess wink*
Teasing him it's always a good way to really pump up a notch the foreplay activity. Building up anticipation it's definitely one of the main things that will make for play 1 million times more exciting. You can gently tease him for a while; caress his lower stomach and his inner thighs, but never really going for the main event and the part that he wishes the most you would touch: the crown jewels and the most precious part of his anatomy wink*.
When you have him crazy for your touch, it’s time to really go to the main event. You can help yourself with some lubrication and then grip and release his penis instead of doing the old expected motion of sliding your hand up and down. This will certainly be an unexpected touch because he’s probably expecting for you to do what’s usually the norm here, the advantage of the element of surprise.
You can follow by putting your thumb on the frenulum because it’s probably the most sensitive part in all his number. You can tease him for a while, making up fun time periods like “when this songs ends” or “when your hand gets tired” (spoiler alert: this position will make your hand less tired than a normal hand job). For some extra points, you can always try this technique when he least expects it, like when you’re watching a movie or relaxing on the couch reading a book. The point of this will always be to stop just right before he achieves orgasm to then start the whole process again a few times before you actually let him finish. It will be left up to you just how many times you actually allow him to go throughout the whole process… just don’t be too naughty wink*
