3 Ways to Bring BDSM into a Vanilla Relationship
Relationships need a shot in the arm every now and then. This is true especially for long term ones given their tendency to fall into some sort of sexual routine. But as many couples out there know, identifying the right path to take when you want to spice things up in your bedroom is tricky. Experiments only work if you are comfortable enough to try out new sex scenes and fetishes with your partner. Then again, adding BDSM into your relationship might be just the right amount of excitement you need to step it up in the bedroom. The BDSM community has plenty of fetishes and fantasies to choose from to make your sex life more interesting. At the same time, help you develop new aspects of your sexuality for both of you to enjoy in the long run. Let’s see what best practices of BDSM you can add to your vanilla relationship when you want to liven up things then work your way up from there anytime you and your partner feel ready for a sexual upgrade.
1. Bondage games
Bondage games come in a wide variety. Chances are, you and your partner will find just what you need to satisfy you both. When it comes to bondage games you can go simple and use a rope or a pair of armbinders, or you can get more involved and even try suspension bondage and restraint systems. 
When it comes to BDSM practices, bondage games are great for beginners and experts. They are intense and exciting, which is why it can help in developing your sex life. More so, please both you and your partner. You can add a variety of sex toys and accessories to your bondage sexual encounters and discover new fetishes along the way. Most bondage equipment come with just the right accessories you need to get new and creative ideas.
2. Impact play
Impact play is maybe the most common BDSM practice among couples all over the world. You can use a fancy paddle, a whip or a flogger and indulge in some impact play with your lover or use these types of sexual practices in an intense foreplay session before some exciting sexual intercourse. Impact play is a great form of sexual stimulation. It also creates new sensations for both of you and can lead to more intense sexual pleasure and satisfaction even before you reach an orgasm. The intensity of the impact play is up to the dominant partner. But the
submissive should have a safe word to use in case the sexual practice becomes too much for them. Make sure you talk with your lover beforehand to see if both of you are up for such a sex scene and then work your way up gradually to enjoy more sexual sensations. Feel free to get creative and combine impact play with bondage games if you feel ready for such diversity then see where your sensations and desires take you.
3. Experiment with different sex toys and accessories
Trying new sex toys and accessories is always a great idea when you want to spice things up in the bedroom to enjoy new sexual experiences. The market offers a variety of toys to associate with different fetishes and fantasies to help make your sexual encounters be as realistic as possible. This is especially helpful if you are trying any form of role play. There is no need to limit your sexual experiences to using only the classics like your dildo or vibrator. Let your imagination run wild and set up the best and most intense sexual encounter for both of you. Your relationship will benefit from it tremendously ultimately.
