Nothing is more agonizing and frustrating than being sexually stimulated and losing out on the chance to satisfy it. Donβt deny it ladies. You know what I mean. Our bodies arenβt designed to just forget about it and move on. Sure, we will survive. But we will be psychotic grouchy bitches as we do.
So naturally when you have a good thing going and the mood is all ready, you donβt want to screw that up. Mainly because it would suck for you. Lost intimacy, lost pleasure and lost satisfaction. Who needs that?
While itβs pretty damn hard to kill the mood with a guy, it can happen. Especially if you venture into any of these five deadly mood killer scenarios.
- You get too drunk
Everyone lives with a common misconception. Guys prefer drunk girls. Itβs just not true. Guys like when a girl gets a little tipsy because she relaxes, has more fun and is quicker to do the things she might have some inhibitions about. But when that line is crossed into full-blown drunk, guys are turned off quickly.
A man likes to know that his woman is choosing him because she wants him. Not because sheβs so drunk it doesnβt matter who the penis is attached to. They donβt want to sit and watch her stumble across the room. They donβt want to hear her drunk babbling. And they donβt want a sloppy drunk all over them. So keep yourself in check and youβll avoid it.
- The jealous game
Want to turn a guy off really quickly? Start hitting on or being flirty with another guy. Especially one of his friends. Itβs an instant way for him to say forget her and move on. If heβs with you, thereβs no need to grab his attention this way. Just walk up and smile at him. He will notice.
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The same is true in reverse. If a girl talks to him, donβt fly off the handle. Maybe heβs just being polite. Trust and closeness go a long way. Besides, nothing is more embarrassing than creating a scene only to find out she was a relative he hadnβt seen in a bit.
- Insecurity
Guys know that you are insecure and generally they know what about. But if you are in the middle of the mood and you start expecting him to reassure you; he will lose the momentum. He doesnβt want to sit and remind you that your ass is not to big and your body is beautiful when heβs just trying to love on you. It makes him wonder about what you think of him. Guys donβt like second guessing themselves with their woman.
- Talking serious
Just as things are heating up is not the time to bring up the future. You should save any talks about commitment, future plans, marriage and most especially kids for another day. When heβs looking at you and wanting you for the night he is not going to be okay with a long heart to heart about where this is going. You can either postpone the chat or the sex. You canβt have both.
- Mom
Bringing up your mom, or even worse his, during a romantic night is going to send it into distress quickly. Nobody wants to bring their mom on a date. So keep those chats to yourself until a better time. He doesnβt need to have to think of them or defend them or discuss them in the heat of the moment. The same is true with almost all of your family members. Leave them at home until you are just hanging out and chatting about life.