Marriage is one of the most beautiful things in life that could ever happen to you, so they say, but somehow you question yourself if this was ever true. What once was cute and adorable when you were still girlfriend-boyfriend no longer holds true as you find the same annoying, irritating, irksome and most of the time leaves you out gasping for air.
Aside from exasperating dealings with your spouse, your list of things to worry about could fall flat in your face thus making your responsibilities more dramatic. You suddenly think about the kids you need to take care of, a career you need to hold on to, vexing bills and loans to pay, and these worries could drain the energy out of you. And then you lay flat in bed at night wondering if things could get any better for you and your supposed-to-be happy married life.
Now why donβt you come to a decisive conclusion and decide whatβs best for your marriage to preserve its glorious years? You might be surprised with this, but bondage or BDSM as they call it, attracts millions of married couples and their stories are life-changing. So before you do another load of laundry or file that report for work, why not consider jumping into the waters and feel the erotic rush of bondage?
1. Bondage solidifies trust issues among married couples.
Trust is one of the most important foundations for a marriage to last a lifetime. As adults, you and your spouse need to establish this in the beginning, and when trust issues resurface, your married life might begin to crumble if you donβt resolve them ASAP.
Bondage creates a continuing trust relationship with your partner as either of you puts your complete trusts in the hands of the other. You bear the sensual pain of a good over the knee spanking, an erotic bondage whipping, being tightly restrained with straps and blindfolded but these wonβt be an issue at all if you have a rock solid trust with your partner. Even if you do trust him, still bondage strengthens this bond as you allow yourself to become vulnerable and submissive to his commands. You allow him to put you under his complete trust and care, unaware of what he might he do next while deliciously anticipating his next move, touch, kiss or caress.
2. Bondage allows you to keep the fire burning.
Going out on fancy dinners, watching movies together, spending lazy Sunday afternoons with your better half are good ways to keep the romance burning, but mind you, bondage also does the same thing. Just in a much more intense and erotic fashion. The only difference is that BDSM gives you and your partner unrestricted freedom to do whatever it takes to sexually pleasure and dominant your partner while the other remains submissive waiting not so patiently for what comes next.
BDSM allows couple to keep their sexual escapades sexy, foxy and tempting but adding a little more twist, zing, spice and everything nice on top of it. Bondage is a sure-fire way to ignite the fire and keep it burning because couples get a chance to experiment their love making sessions. Couples can go as far as using ball gags, leather leash and collar kits, restraints, mouth muzzles and the like. These BDSM equipments can instantly liven up your senses thus making your bondage sessions more exciting, stimulating and sexually arousing.
3. Bondage gives you a thousandfold of erotic feelings all at the same time.
BDSM is an erotic and sexually intoxicating lovemaking session that could send a thousand number of sensations in different parts of your body. In turn, you feel a satiable and palatable sexual craving with your partner that only heightens as emotional and the most amazing orgasms of your life come forward.
If you want to take it a step forward, you can always introduce sexy hot new bondage gear in with your love making or bondage sex. Soft sexy rope, blindfolds, wrist cuffs, ballgags, bondage tape and more are just some of the great gear and sexy toys you can add to your love making.
With the different uses of various bondage fear, you can greatly enhance your sexual experience by giving yourself and your lover even more sensual and erotic possibilities. Although you can also satisfy oneβs sexual hunger with just one stroke or two. Use ties and ropes to caress and fondle your partnerβs most sensitive parts until they feel the pleasure building up inside them, almost spilling out. Or why donβt you use an ostrich tickler to stroke and titillate your partner as you move it up and down their tender parts as they beg for more. These are fun ways to heat things up.
4. Bondage opens up a different horizon where partners can learn from each other.
Bondage opens up a number of doors for you and your partner. This means that, during your hot passionate bondage sessions, you discover new and deliciously erotic things about each other. It could be that your partner wants you to talk dirty with him as he rubs his thing inside your threshold or how he loves to hear you moan and beg for mercy. These experiences allow you to make up for those ho-hum moments during the day and in turn please him the way he wants to be pleased. Or it could be the other way around. Your partner might discover that you like to be touched and caressed in this manner or that you love the kinky idea out of role playing.
The benefits of bondage for a married couple are that they keep things spicy and sexy. Hot monogamy is the best monogamy. And remember monogamy doesnβt have to be monogamous. So spice up your sex life by letting go and exploring the sensual side of you with bondage.