Secrets to an Erotic One Night Stand

Sometimes you just want to have a passionate night of sex with no strings attached. In this modern era, this idea is totally great! However, you do need to learn how to do it right. Yes, there is a right way to do it. Sure there isn’t really a big deal out of it or it doesn’t even need a lot of preparation, but you do want to be ready to make the best of the situation. Read these tips to get started.

Don’t be too drunk

One very important reminder is you shouldn’t be drunk in your one-night stand. If you want to drink a few alcoholic beverages then great, by all means do so. But you shouldn’t be drunk because what is the point of not being able to remember the night and the wonderful orgasms you had? Both your brain and your body will thank you if you keep the drinking to a minimum.

No strings attached

Probably the first thing you need to keep in mind here is to leave your feelings at the door. Remember this is something entirely physical, no emotions are involved. The idea of a one-night stand is basically about a short and passionate encounter. You don’t need to like everything about a person because you will not have a relationship with them. Avoid any expectations and as much as possible limit your emotional involvement. You just need to have sex. This should also be apparent to the other person so make sure you are both on the same page.

Speak your preferences

It is best to voice out your preferences, like what you want or need. Since this is a one-time thing, you may be more inclined to try some things, never be too ashamed. You may become more open minded about a lot of things and possibly say something like, “Tie me up” or ”Spank me.” Bear in mind, you will only be seeing this person for one night and you might sound a bit odd since they don’t really know you. Even so, don’t be afraid to verbalize what you want like using a sex toy, more oral sex, or whatever. Indulge as much as you want especially if your partner is into it as well.

Be civil with each other

The third thing to keep in mind is to maintain common courtesy. For instance, if it is really late at night offer them your bed. They can always leave the next morning if they desire. Oh, and by the way, try to keep the conversation light. As what I mentioned earlier, you are not looking for a partner, so you don’t need to ask them whether religion is important in their lives, what their family is like, or what is their political stance, and the like. If they spent the night, at least offer them some water, coffee or tea in the morning before they go… you’re not obliged to ask them to have brunch, wink*. When you are saying goodbye, keep it short and simple. It doesn’t have to be awkward. Thank them for the night and let them go on their merry way.

If you are at their house, don’t leave without saying goodbye, doing so is simply rude. This could also send them the wrong signal, as if you had regretted the night before. You are both consenting adults who decided to take part in the sexual activity, so you need to be mature. It is not a big deal, just thank them, and say goodbye. The two of you will move on with your lives with a lovely memory of the night. And of course, always, always use some form of protection like condoms, at the very least.